You're comfortable in your own skin and able to make women feel comfortable in theirs.
Women can sense that you're connected to your sensuality and your desire, and you can use this magic to build both physical and emotional intimacy. You seek a strong connection and bond, but can sometimes mistake fleeting desire for true connection.
Be careful not to only show one side of yourself to others, or to fall into using your sexual power to feed your ego. You know how to attract and interest a woman, but a lasting relationship is also built on vulnerability, communication, boundaries, and shared care and support.
Your healthiest version is an empowered Lover, not a Player.
Like Casanova, you know that women are attracted to a man who is in touch with his sensuality. You're able to seduce and create intense physical experiences and leave women wanting more. The Lover revels in the thrill of the chase, making dating an exciting and intimate game. He can help women get out of their heads and escape from the seriousness of life.
Confusing intense feelings with connection and love. Using physical intimacy as a shield from building true intimacy. Sometimes you may find yourself in one-dimensional relationships and unsure of how you got there. Once the intoxicating honeymoon phase has passed, the immature Lover's impulse can be to move on - but building the foundation for a strong, long-term relationship starts after the honeymoon is over.
“Emotional intimacy opens me up to deeper, trusting connections.”
I'm Joe, the men's coach and one half of Dating For Love. My work focuses on helping men (interested in dating women) build the sustainable attraction needed to attract a high-quality partner and secure a satisfying long-term relationship.
This starts with gaining knowledge of yourself, and how you approach your relationships. Through understanding attraction dynamics we can improve our relationship skills and expand our opportunities to find a great partner. Men's dating strategies are governed by 4 key archetypes - this is just one of them. They all need to be in balance so we can lean into our super-powers and avoid falling prey to our shadow sides.
The 9-week intensive for men ready to stop circling and start choosing.
A real method, real archetypes, real partner-selection skills. The Family Man is the program for men ready to be someone's husband - not someone's situationship. Five modules across nine weeks plus the four archetypes of masculine attraction.
A pleasure-seeker who thrives in the thrill of the chase.
A man on a mission, unafraid to claim what is his.
Read →An open-hearted guy who doesn't judge and sees the best in everyone.
Read →A thoughtful, generous man who is aware of the needs of others.
Read →All four archetypes need to be in balance for sustainable masculine attraction.
If you're ready to develop the four archetypes into a real partner-selection strategy - and stop running the same dating loop - The Family Man is the 9-week intensive. Or if you'd rather work 1:1, book a coaching call.