When you do find yourself in a relationship you either worry that things aren't happening as quickly as they should and try to push things forward or you get so scared of showing too much interest that you end up not showing enough. Either way, you feel like you keep making the same mistakes over and over again and now you’ve had enough! you’re sick of it!
You may be open to forming a relationship with someone but find yourself keeping your heart safe for fear of getting hurt again.
Occasionally you meet someone you think you could like, only to have them tell you ‘they just want to be friends’ (which is ironic because that’s what you find yourself saying to the people who pursue you.)
You constantly tell your friends and family that you don't have time to date but really you know it’s because you’re afraid it might not happen for you.
You have been told over and over again that ‘love will find you’, and when a true connection doesn’t happen organically you begin to worry it might never happen for you personally.
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It’s time to stop gambling in love! With our online coaching programs you’ll learn to navigate the modern dating scene with certainty as you develop the key dating and relationship skills to help you successfully date for love and create sustainable long-term attraction.
Understanding your primary dating strategy along with your personal strengths and weaknesses can help you to better understand attraction dynamics and improve your skills and expand your dating prospects.
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In the past we have both experienced our share of dating let downs, relationship troubles and heartbreak. Since then, we have taken our past experiences and everything we learnt from them along with our training, experience as coaches, continual professional development and ongoing learning in evolutionary psychology and human behaviour to develop a practical methodology for Sydney men and women to apply to their dating life.
Our methodology helps you learn the skills to understand the opposite sex and attract and experience a strong and healthy relationship.
When it comes to dating and relationships, you have most likely not been taught how to enter the world of dating well, turn an initial spark into long lasting attraction, or build a strong and respectful relationship. That’s why we have developed our Attraction Styles Method to assist you with learning healthy dating and relationship skills, so that you can create the love you want and pass this knowledge down to your children.
Before working with Jiveny I was struggling with choosing the wrong men and navigating my insecurities. I wanted a serious, committed relationship but I often had trouble keeping guys interested or would wind up chasing them away. Other times, I would go for an easy guy who liked me (which was never very satisfying).
Since working together, I’ve noticed a huge shift in my mindset and approach to dating for the better. I’m much more able to manage my reactions and approach, allowing the guys I am interested in to come to me.
I’ve now met a great guy who is proactive in building a healthy relationship with me and who puts effort in to keep things fun and interesting. Even better he also takes an interest in personal development and makes open communication feel effortless and natural. Overall, I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed and I cannot recommend Jiveny highly enough!
I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners.
Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me.
SAM, 27 | PROJECT MANAGER
Before working with Jiveny I had just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again. After working with Jiveny I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour. I was much more able to identify partners that were not suitable for me and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.
Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! I know what I want and deserve in a partner and I am able to bring my best self to the relationship. I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.
Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what l'd done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn't tell if I
was moving forwards or backwards. I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else. ever been able to say before.
I was disillusioned with my dating life and seeking a long-term healthy relationship so I contacted Jiveny. From our very first session, I felt comfortable and excited to begin working with her.
Through our work, she helped me identify my barriers, clarify what I wanted in a partner and what a healthy relationship looked like. I was also able to identify the mistakes I had been making. This work has really helped me to developed much more confidence in dating and relationship and I was excited to put what we worked on into practice.
I am now in the best relationship I have ever had and excited for the future. I attribute this to the work I did with Jiveny. Whether you are in the dating world or in a relationship, I would not hesitate in recommending Jiveny. She has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I’ve been in a long time.
Before working with Jiveny I had been meandering the online dating circuit for about 18 months with no real luck beyond a third date. Jiveny helped me to understand the destructive patterns I had created for myself and assisted me in developing a greater awareness of the ways in which I was self-sabotaging my love life.
Throughout our sessions together, I felt a genuine sense of care from Jiveny and never rushed. Her course materials and resources are fantastic and really helped me to get clear on what I want from a relationship and why. The best support has been in understanding the decisions I have made and how these have drawn the wrong kinds of people to me in the past. The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.
Best of all, I am now in a healthy long-term relationship with a wonderful man.
Jiveny gave me permission to speak openly about some of my deepest fears, anxieties, desires and dreams and was completely present with me as I talked. Her questions guided me to self-assess and reflect on my own beliefs and attitudes in ways that I had never considered before.
Through this, I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. Most of all, Jiveny helped me identify the deeper core feelings and unmet needs stopping me from living my life fully. After our coaching sessions I've felt a deeper sense clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.
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