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Move into the next chapter of life with the perfect partner for you. You will learn methods directly from a husband & wife coaching team that will allow you to date for love and develop a strong and healthy attraction.

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 Pretty deep right? And what we say to ourselves when we are trying to find love is even worse. If you’re wanting to get your dating life under control and finally achieve that long lasting relationship then it's time to work with our Melbourne relationship coaching team.

In the end, you simply find that you’re always echoing the same behaviours again and again and you’re fed up! 


After you find yourself in a committed relationship you are either concerned that it’s moving too quickly or you’re afraid that you’re displaying too much interest. 


You’re starting to notice a pattern in why your previous relationships haven’t worked out and wonder if it’s something you can change.


You want to form a healthy relationship but feel it's daunting to open yourself up to someone.


You find yourself making the excuse that you’re simply too busy to date as your work and social calendar is always full, however a part of you knows you don’t really prioritize dating because you’re scared that a long lasting relationship may not happen for you.


On the rare occasions when you do meet someone you’re attracted to, the feeling is often not mutual and you feel rejected all over again.


Friends and family tell you ‘there’s someone out there for you, you just have to wait for it’ and when it doesn’t you start to wonder if you will ever find good love.


Do you recognise any of this?

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Get personalised support direct from Melbourne’s best dating coaches. You will be coached and guided on how to build a healthy dating mindset as we work together to identify blindspots and overcome the barriers that are keeping you from getting the love you want.

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Our free quiz gives you insight into your default dating strategy and can help you to hone your dating and relationship skills by identifying your personal strengths and weaknesses and explaining the key elements of attraction dynamics.

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Don’t leave love to chance! Our online coaching programs can assist you with understanding the world of modern dating by providing a clear framework for understanding attraction dynamics and building the relationship skills you need to successfully date for love.

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Jiveny and Joe are a husband and wife duo that can help you attract and find the healthy relationship you are looking for. If you’re based in Melbourne and seeking a deep and lasting relationship with a meaningful romantic connection, working with a dating coach can help you to fast track your journey to great love.

How Melbourne's best dating coaching team can help you...

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We both get it, we have also experienced the rollercoaster ride of dating life. We have had our share of dating fails and relationships that didn’t work out and felt the pain of heartbreak. But these previous experiences have only helped to shape the methodology we now use to help Melbourne women and men with their dating life. We also have extensive knowledge of relationships and dating due to our training, coaching experience and continuous professional development, and ongoing learning in evolutionary psychology and social sciences. Our Attraction Styles Method allows you to draw in and experience a respectful and strong, lasting relationship and attraction that you deserve. 

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Before working with Jiveny I was struggling with choosing the wrong men and navigating my insecurities. I wanted a serious, committed relationship but I often had trouble keeping guys interested or would wind up chasing them away. Other times, I would go for an easy guy who liked me (which was never very satisfying).

Since working together, I’ve noticed a huge shift in my mindset and approach to dating for the better. I’m much more able to manage my reactions and approach, allowing the guys I am interested in to come to me.

I’ve now met a great guy who is proactive in building a healthy relationship with me and who puts effort in to keep things fun and interesting. Even better he also takes an interest in personal development and makes open communication feel effortless and natural. Overall, I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed and I cannot recommend Jiveny highly enough!

 I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed.

I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners. 

Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me. 

Before working with Joe, I was always pursuing women that made me feel crazy and led to toxic relationships


Lauren, 28 | digital Marketing Executive

Before working with Jiveny I had just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again. After working with Jiveny I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour. I was much more able to identify partners that were not suitable for me and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.

Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! I know what I want and deserve in a partner and I am able to bring my best self to the relationship. I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.

I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.

Wiiliam, 34 | Engineer 

Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what l'd done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn't tell if I was moving forwards or backwards. I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else. ever been able to say before. 

Since working together I've become
better at handling and reflecting on the
ups and downs, as well as having a better
approach to this whole dating thing.


I was disillusioned with my dating life and seeking a long-term healthy relationship so I contacted Jiveny. From our very first session, I felt comfortable and excited to begin working with her.

Through our work, she helped me identify my barriers, clarify what I wanted in a partner and what a healthy relationship looked like. I was also able to identify the mistakes I had been making. This work has really helped me to developed much more confidence in dating and relationship and I was excited to put what we worked on into practice.

I am now in the best relationship I have ever had and excited for the future. I attribute this to the work I did with Jiveny. Whether you are in the dating world or in a relationship, I would not hesitate in recommending Jiveny. She has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I’ve been in a long time.

Jiveny has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I’ve been in a long time.


Before working with Jiveny I had been meandering the online dating circuit for about 18 months with no real luck beyond a third date. Jiveny helped me to understand the destructive patterns I had created for myself and assisted me in developing a greater awareness of the ways in which I was self-sabotaging my love life.

Throughout our sessions together, I felt a genuine sense of care from Jiveny and never rushed. Her course materials and resources are fantastic and really helped me to get clear on what I want from a relationship and why. The best support has been in understanding the decisions I have made and how these have drawn the wrong kinds of people to me in the past. The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.

Best of all, I am now in a healthy long-term relationship with a wonderful man.

The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.


Jiveny gave me permission to speak openly about some of my deepest fears, anxieties, desires and dreams and was completely present with me as I talked. Her questions guided me to self-assess and reflect on my own beliefs and attitudes in ways that I had never considered before.

Through this, I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. Most of all, Jiveny helped me identify the deeper core feelings and unmet needs stopping me from living my life fully. After our coaching sessions I've felt a deeper sense clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.

Clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment

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