Client Results

Real people. Real results.

Hundreds of smart, self-aware people have used this work to stop the cycle and build lasting love. Here's what they have to say.

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Hear it in their words.

Stacey

Georgia

Margaret

“I used to think relationships just weren't for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I'm in a relationship with a really lovely man.”

Before I hired Jiveny, I was always seeming to be attracted to men who were unavailable. Through doing this work, it became much clearer that my attachment style was 'avoidant'. Deep down, I really wanted a relationship but I was terrified at the same time of becoming close and intimate with a man.

At age 69, I also thought I was much too old to find a loving, committed relationship. But age really does not come into it - and I learned that through working and connecting with Jiveny.

At the time, I also felt quite negatively about myself. Yet the support, encouragement and wisdom I received meant that over time, I was able to change my view of myself.

Now I'm in a relationship with a really lovely man. We are very happily making a life together - which is not something I ever believed could happen to me. He ticks all of the boxes that I was looking for - he's good at communicating and listening, secure in himself, warm, affectionate and both interesting and interested in many things. We've been together for over 5 years now and I can truthfully say that this is a relationship which is so satisfying and fulfilling - more than I ever thought a relationship could be! It's truly the most extraordinary experience!

I know now that if I hadn't done this work, I would have continued on in the same way. My life still would have been enjoyable and rich, and I would have been practising gratitude - because I really was grateful for many of the good things in my life - but I just would not have grown in the way that I have through this experience.

When I reflect on the time I spent in coaching, I realise that Jiveny believed in me when I did not believe in myself. She provided me with the tools for exploring so much about myself and the use of those tools have been transformational. Of special interest and value is The Alchemy of Attraction work we did.

- Margaret, 69

Women who did the work.

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“I found this work groundbreaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the 'whys' and 'hows' of my failed relationships - and I've since found a lifelong partner who I've started a family with.”

Before starting this work I had experienced a handful of serious relationships that I had mostly sabotaged. I was also in these relationships for the wrong reasons, so I guess they were destined to fail.

I wanted to find a real, loving and lasting relationship with someone who I could trust, be myself with and who was as committed to the relationship as I was. Someone I could grow with and raise a family with.

I found this work groundbreaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the 'whys' and 'hows' regarding my failed relationships. I was helped to open myself to what I really wanted and let go of what wasn't working.

Perhaps the most important thing I remember was identifying my values and how to recognise these in others. I was also able to eventually see that many of my past relationships were never what I really wanted anyway.

I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with. Applying the things I learned to the early stages of our relationship really helped us to progress our connection in a much healthier way.

We've been together for several years now and have one-year-old twin baby girls. My partner is loyal beyond words - this was something I haven't really ever been able to say before. He puts his family first and is such a loving and involved father.

My advice to anyone struggling with dating and relationships is to spend the time and money investing in yourself!

- Aisha, 36

From Client to Coach

From coaching client to DFL coach.

Sheridan came to us single for 10 years, struggling with overthinking, self-sabotage and a lack of solid boundaries. After doing this work, she reconnected to her intuition and to parts of herself that had been hidden away for quite some time. She went on to develop a relationship with a man who lights up her soul - after 3 years of dating, they're now married and parents to a beautiful baby girl. Today, Sheridan is one of our coaches because she believes in this work so deeply, she wanted to help other women experience the same transformation.

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“Choosing to do AOA has been the best money I've ever spent on investing in myself and my future. Initially I was worried it was too much to spend on myself, but after the first lesson, it just confirmed that I had made the right decision.”

“Recently, I found someone with whom I share a deep connection and am thrilled to announce we are now in a committed relationship! I approach dating with more confidence and optimism, and feel much more well equipped to create a healthy relationship.”

“I've noticed a huge shift in my mindset and approach to dating for the better. I've now met a great guy who is proactive in building a healthy relationship with me. I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed.”

“My anxiety had just about disappeared completely. Since working with Sheridan I feel so much more grounded and at ease with myself - and that's changed how I show up in every area of my life.”

“Jiveny did wonders showing me where my inner strength was hiding. I'm now 18 months into a new relationship that is healthy and fulfilling. I feel like I can face any challenge in a healthy way and find my way back to compassion and love.”

“I see myself as a whole whereas before I only saw myself in parts. This work helped me understand the full picture of who I am and what I bring to a relationship.”

“Sheridan has this perfect balance of feeling like you're talking to both a friend and a coach. I always felt safe, supported and completely understood.”

“I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. I've felt a deeper sense of clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.”

Frequently asked questions

Every woman's journey is different. Some clients notice shifts in how they think about dating within the first few sessions. Others see the biggest changes over 3 - 6 months as they apply what they're learning in real time. The women on this page worked with us for varying lengths of time - what they all had in common was a willingness to do the inner work alongside the practical strategies.

Not at all. Many of our clients start coaching before they're ready to date - and that's often the best time to begin. Understanding your patterns, attachment style and what you're actually looking for gives you a much stronger foundation when you do start putting yourself out there.

Therapy and coaching serve different purposes. Therapy helps you understand your past and process emotions. Coaching is focused on forward momentum - giving you practical tools, frameworks and strategies specifically designed for dating and relationships. Many of our clients do both and find they complement each other well. As one of our clients, Stacey, put it, "I'd done therapy and I had great friends to debrief my dates with, but there was still something missing. This work filled that gap for me."

The Alchemy of Attraction (AOA) is our signature women's dating and relationship program. It's a deep-dive into the psychology of attraction, attachment and relationships - built around archetypal frameworks that help you understand yourself, understand men, and show up in dating with clarity and confidence. Most of the women on this page have completed AOA as part of their journey.

We don't find you a partner. We help you become the kind of person who can attract - and keep - the right partner for you. That means working on your patterns, your confidence, your communication and your understanding of what healthy love actually looks like. The relationship outcomes you see on this page came from women who did that inner work and then applied it to their real dating lives.

All coaching is conducted online via video call, so you can work with us from anywhere in the world.

If you're reading this page and recognising yourself in these stories - the overthinking, the patterns, the wondering why it hasn't worked out - that's usually a pretty good sign. The first step is to apply for a consultation where we can talk about where you're at and whether coaching is the right fit.

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