Dating for Love
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Transform Your Love Life With:

The Alchemy of Attraction

Master the energetics of attraction, break the cycle of bad love and create a relationship that’s secure, sexy, and built to last.

Stop performing, pleasing, and overthinking things. This is where you get to reclaim your radiance and start attracting real love - on your terms.

“I'm so grateful for this program - it empowered me to find love from a place of authenticity and self-worth. I'm still using the skills I learned to nurture and grow our connection every day.”
“My dating life has totally changed. I feel much more attractive and I find it easy to draw men into my orbit. I'm having fun, respectful, active dates, and I finally know how to use my feminine power without it feeling forced or inauthentic.”
“Now, my entire dating approach feels calmer, more grounded, and more aligned. I'm dating with greater ease, clarity, and a willingness to let things unfold naturally.”

Ready to stop attracting the wrong men and finally create the relationship your soul’s been yearning for?

You’re exactly where you need to be.

I can’t tell you how often I talk to women who are thriving in their career and personal growth journey… yet still find love confusing, exhausting, and out of reach.

They tell me things like:

“I attract interest, but the ones I want never fully choose me… and the ones who do? There’s just no spark.”

And

“I’m smart, successful, and self-aware… why is this the one area of my life I can’t seem to figure out?”

Like them, you’ve probably read all the books, binged the relationship podcasts, and followed more than a few ‘love gurus’ on Instagram…

You’ve collected tips, tactics, and contradictory dating advice - but none of it’s resulted in the deep shift you’re looking for.

You’ve vented to friends (who are either just as confused or already partnered), and walked away with plenty of well-meaning advice that doesn’t actually fit your situation.

Still, you reluctantly return to the dating apps, hoping to find your person - only to wind up drained by shallow conversations, ghosting, or matches who don’t align.

Relatable?

Here’s the truth.

You don’t need more random advice from the internet.

You need a clear, step-by-step journey that actually works - one that helps you break the cycle for good and become magnetic to the kind of love you know is possible.

Jiveny sitting in the sand at sunset with a frame drum

Which is why The Alchemy of Attraction was made for you.

Inside, I’ll guide you step-by-step to go from stuck in old patterns and second-guessing yourself to radiant, self-assured, and attracting emotionally available men with ease.

Whether you’re feeling jaded from dating apps, anxious about your love life, or unsure how to shift the energy you’re bringing to relationships, this program is your path to lasting love - the kind that calls you forward and inspires your next evolution.

I can do this because I’ve been where you are... and I know what it really takes to attract lasting, soul-nourishing love.

Not so long ago, I was stuck in the same exhausting cycles - attracting emotionally unavailable men, (or men who liked me but it felt like settling) second-guessing myself, and wondering why love felt so hard when I was doing everything “right.”

I was…

  • Unaware of my own shadows, projections, and wounds - and how they were quietly sabotaging my chance at lasting love.
  • Trying to subtly control and manipulate dating situations in an effort to keep a man interested and feel secure.
  • Swinging between squashing my boundaries to keep him close, and setting them so hard I shut intimacy out before it had a chance to grow.
  • Recklessly jumping into bed with the wrong men, mistaking chemistry for connection.
  • Ignoring my intuition, clinging to potential, and calling it love - until reality hit hard.
A woman sitting in reflection

Eventually I decided to stop winging it and committed to learning what it really takes to create lasting attraction and secure love.

Now I am…

  • Happily married to the love of my life, in a relationship that feels deeply passionate and profoundly safe
  • A well-loved, well-f*cked and well-resourced woman with a partner who sees and adores every part of me.
  • Grounded in my worth, knowing I don’t have to chase, prove, or perform to be chosen.
  • Firm with my boundaries, generous with my love - someone who knows when to speak up and when to lean back and trust.
  • Clear on what it means to “keep my side of the street clean” so our relationship continues to grow and thrive.
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Meet Your Mentor

Meet Your Mentor

After years of exploring the dynamics of attraction, healing old wounds, and learning how to approach relationships in a whole new way, I made it my mission to share what I’d learned.

For the past decade, I’ve been guiding women through the messy, tender, and powerful process of transforming their love lives from the inside out.

Along the way, I’ve co-authored a book with my psychiatrist father, and shared my work in places like Cosmopolitan, Mamamia, Body+Soul, ABC Radio, podcasts, and even a few segments on The Morning Show on Channel 9.

But more than any feature or title, what I care about most is helping women like you break old patterns and create the kind of extraordinary love they once thought was out of reach.

Jiveny, dating and relationship coach
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I’m here to walk you home to yourself

To the woman you’ve always been beneath the fear, masks, and old survival patterns.

So you can reconnect with the version of you that’s fully alive - radiant with passion, pleasure, and play.

And be ready for love that feels safe, electric, and true.

This is the work that frees you from the unconscious patterns keeping you stuck…

The ones that make you second-guess, self-protect, or sabotage the very thing you want most.

It’s also the work that heals your relationship with men - so you can finally receive the love your heart has been yearning for

This program has already supported dozens of women to attract their life partners, create secure, lasting relationships, get married, start families - and most importantly, break the cycle of bad love.

Every woman who joins doesn’t just transform her own love life…

She becomes a living example of what’s possible.

A ripple effect of healthy, empowered love that extends far beyond just her.

See for yourself.

“If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then doing AOA is an absolute must!”

I was single for about 10 years before I found this work and I felt like I had lost my way. Since doing this course, I have married a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself. I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have!

“I credit The Alchemy of Attraction course with setting me up for long-term sustainable success with my now husband who is literally the man of my dreams!”

Now I don’t second guess my partner’s interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship. Most of all, I am confident that we are building a sustainable relationship that will carry us throughout our lives. Whether you’re ready to date, currently dating or in a relationship - I truly believe there’s something for everyone in AOA.

“AOA is the best personal growth course that I have ever done. It gives you the practical tools you need to build strong relationships in every sphere of your life. You will finish the course feeling like the most amazing woman ever!”

Before doing AOA I felt lost in the world of dating and relationships. I was battling with online dating, trying to make sense of what I was supposed to be doing and just kept thinking I was doing everything wrong. The course highlighted many habits of mine that were not serving my goals. It allowed me to understand why I made those choices and I was given practical advice so I could stop pushing the right kind of men away.

If you feel the pull… trust it. This is your next step.

The Alchemy of Attraction is not your average dating course.

It’s an initiation.

A reclamation.

A complete energetic reset.

You’ll shift the patterns that keep you stuck in “almosts” and unavailable love.

You’ll stop questioning your worth - or wondering why this is the one area that never quite lands.

You’ll awaken the part of you that knows how to be chosen.

How to be met.

How to receive.

This is where your nervous system learns what secure love feels like.

And where your body becomes a home for intimacy, devotion, and eros.

After The Alchemy of Attraction, dating won’t feel like a game or a grind.

It will feel natural, empowering and even fun again.

Because you won’t just know how to attract good love…

You’ll become the woman who embodies it.

You’re not here by accident. You’re here because you’re ready.

You want…

  • A deep, secure relationship with a man who fully sees, chooses, and cherishes you.
  • To feel radiant, turned on, and confident in your love life.
  • To date with clarity, ease, and self-trust - no more second-guessing or overthinking.
  • To express your needs and boundaries with grace and power.
  • To experience love as something that expands you, not drains you.

But currently…

  • You keep attracting emotionally unavailable men who never fully choose you back.
  • You’ve lost your spark, and dating feels more like a chore than a joy.
  • You’re stuck in analysis paralysis, unsure what to do differently or why it keeps going wrong.
  • You struggle to set boundaries that stick - either compromising your needs or shutting down.
  • You’re tired of “doing the work” and still ending up in the same place.

Inside The Alchemy of Attraction, you’ll receive:

A clear, grounded framework for understanding relationships and breaking old patterns - so you can attract love with clarity, show up with confidence, and create a partnership that truly expands you.

Here’s how it all unfolds:

9 On-demand MasterclassesOn embodied attraction, male/female dynamics & how to create a secure, lasting relationship.
4 Q&A RecordingsWith real women, answering their questions and troubleshooting their dating and relationship struggles.
Integration PracticesAnd journal prompts to help you embody the work and apply it to your real-life dating experiences.
Private CommunityOf like-minded women offering support, accountability, and sisterhood between sessions.
Bonus audio trainingsReleased throughout the program to deepen your awareness and keep the momentum flowing.
Lifetime access to all contentIncluding all future updates so you can revisit the material anytime you want a refresh or energetic reset.

You’re just 5 steps away from transforming how you date, love, and relate - for good!

Take a look through the course modules and discover what's inside...

The Energetics of Attraction
Module One

The Energetics of Attraction

You’ll learn:
  • The difference between superficial and sustainable attraction - why most people chase the wrong kind and how to shift into the kind that lasts.
  • How to identify and attract a truly high-quality man so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start choosing who you invest in with clarity and confidence.
  • The 4 Archetypes of Feminine Attraction - a practical framework for the relational energies and skills needed for lasting love, and how to balance them.
  • How to spot and shift the shadow sides of each archetype so you can break free from self-sabotaging patterns before they kill the connection.
Your Vision, Boundaries & Building Self Worth
Module Two

Your Vision, Boundaries & Building Self Worth

You’ll learn:
  • How to clarify your relationship vision so you stop wasting time on mismatches and align with the love you truly desire.
  • Why outdated dating strategies don’t serve you and how to break free from patterns that keep you stuck in ‘almost’ relationships.
  • The skillset of wholehearted boundaries so you can speak your truth with clarity - without pushing good men away.
  • How to stand in your power without closing your heart by honouring your worth while remaining open to love, support, and devotion.
Receiving, Revealing & Rebuilding Trust
Module Three

Receiving, Revealing & Rebuilding Trust

You’ll learn:
  • How to soften into your feminine energy and lead with lightness and play so dating feels more fun, relaxed and emotionally fulfilling
  • The art of empowered vulnerability - how to share your truth in a way that deepens intimacy and draws men closer - not scares them off
  • How to pace a new connection - so you don’t rush in, miss red flags or lose yourself in the process
  • How to rebuild trust with men - so past wounds don’t keep blocking the love and partnership you desire
Reclaiming Your Magnetism & The Art of Seduction
Module Four

Reclaiming Your Magnetism & The Art of Seduction

You’ll learn:
  • How to reconnect with your feminine radiance and express your sensuality in a way that feels magnetic, empowered, and safe to your nervous system
  • The two key ingredients for natural, confident flirting - and how to embody them without forcing, performing, or losing your authentic self in the process
  • What it means to lead with seduction instead of sex - so you can balance chemistry with emotional safety while building a new connection
  • How to stop swinging between hiding your desire and leading with it - so you can express your sexuality with confidence, intention and self-respect
A couple kissing at sunset beside the water.
Module Five

Making Love Last

You’ll learn:
  • How to relate to men in a way that builds trust, depth, and devotion - so you’re seen as a true partner, not just another fling
  • How to stay grounded in your individuality - so you don’t lose yourself as the relationship deepens or becomes more committed
  • How to navigate conflict and tension with maturity - so the relationship grows stronger instead of falling apart when things get hard
  • How to embody your new relational blueprint - so your growth sticks and you naturally attract love that’s safe, real, and enduring
The Longer Version

Discover what becomes possible when you choose this work

Sophie, 34
“I feel so much more attractive than I used to because I finally know how to use my feminine power.”

Before this, I was trapped in a cycle of avoidant dating, taking everything too seriously and suddenly pushing men away without understanding why.

Now, I find it easy to draw men into my orbit and access my feminine energy in a way that feels authentic, multidimensional, and completely comfortable. One of the biggest game-changers was learning to access my Siren energy to draw a guy to me, and it actually works! It’s such a low-stakes, authentic way to flirt.

Jiveny is magic; this is femininity coaching without games or force, helping you stop making the unknown mistakes that keep you stuck so you can bring out the best in men.

Say yes and become the woman who attracts real, lasting love.

Convenient

Get Started Today

4 x Monthly Payments:
$330 USD
  • Lifetime access to the entire program, Q&A sessions + bonus trainings
  • Audio, video and written materials to support your learning
  • Connection to a community of magnetic women on the same path inside our private Telegram group
Best Value

Pay In Full + Save

One Time Payment Of:
$1200 USD
  • Lifetime access to the entire program, Q&A sessions + bonus trainings
  • Audio, video and written materials to support your learning
  • Connection to a community of magnetic women on the same path inside our private Telegram group

The Alchemy of Attraction dating & relationship course isn't like other programs out there

This is not about...

  • Perfecting “the rules” to make him chase you
  • Following rigid “high-value woman” checklists
  • Using psychology hacks to manipulate a man into commitment
  • Manifesting love through mindset alone, while taking no practical action
  • Contorting yourself to keep a connection alive

This is about...

  • Embodying unshakable confidence and magnetic energy
  • Mastering the dance of attraction in a way that feels natural
  • Navigating love with emotional intelligence and self-trust
  • Raising your standards without closing your heart
  • Creating a relationship that’s secure, sexy, and built to last

Through this work, you’ll become the kind of woman who doesn’t just hope for great love - she attracts it. Naturally. Unapologetically. Without having to chase.

Imagine what it would be like to…

  • Be in the driver’s seat of your love life and actually enjoy dating again - No more feeling powerless, exhausted, or confused. You’ll date with confidence, clarity, and a sense of ease.
  • Have high-quality men pursuing you for commitment (#choices!) - Instead of chasing or settling, you’ll naturally attract emotionally available men who step up, prioritize you, and want to invest in a future with you.
  • Feel confident (and maybe even a little turned on) by how you interact with men - No more overthinking or second-guessing. You’ll trust yourself to show up with magnetism, playfulness, and self-assurance.
  • Express your desires and boundaries without fear of scaring him off - No more shrinking, over-explaining, or people-pleasing. You’ll communicate in a way that feels effortless and attracts the right kind of commitment.
  • Break free from old patterns and attract the relationship you actually want - Whether it’s unavailable men, anxious attachment, or self-sabotage, you’ll finally shift the deep-rooted dynamics that have held you back.
  • Be in a relationship so loving, supportive, and expansive that it fuels your biggest dreams - Whether that’s starting a business, a family, or simply living with more joy, your relationship will lift you up - not weigh you down.

Don't just take my word for it,

Hear what Stacey and Laura had to say about The Alchemy of Attraction.

Stacey, 34
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Laura, 30

You weren’t meant to do this alone.

You’ve read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Gleaned quick tips from social media…

And tried to coach yourself through every trigger and disappointment.

But the truth is, healing relationship patterns isn’t a solo sport.

Because you don’t know what you don’t know.

You need mirrors. You need guidance.

You need to be seen, supported, and held as you try on new ways of being.

And maybe most importantly?

You need to know you’re not the only one.

There’s something powerful about healing in community.

Seeing your story reflected back to you.

Being witnessed in your growth.

Realising that other smart, successful women have struggled with the exact same patterns.

Inside The Alchemy of Attraction, you’ll be held in a sisterhood of women who get it and who are committed to rising together.

Because deep, secure love starts with support.

And the kind of woman who creates extraordinary love?

She doesn’t do it alone.

What Our Students Are Saying:

Message: AOA has been incredibly helpful and empowering
Message: I do feel so enriched doing AOA
Message: James and I recently got married
Email from Laura: I still use the tools weekly that you taught me
Message: I just listened to the first session - mind blowing!
Message from Sophie: I have been having so much fun since Jiveny's flirting masterclass
Message: connecting with you kickstarted this journey and brought me to my now-husband
Message: how valuable I have found the AOA
Message: definitely do it, it's sooo worth it - I'm a changed woman forever
Email from Jade: I am finding it very valuable
Group chat: thank you to Jiveny, the AOA has been incredibly valuable
Group chat: this course has been amazing and you have been the BEST teacher

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I’ve designed this course to be accessible - even for those with full lives and full calendars.

Because love doesn’t wait until things slow down.

It arrives when you decide you're ready.

A Note From Me

The Alchemy of Attraction is the exact body of work that helped me to get off the dating merry-go-round and into the most satisfying relationship of my life.

This isn’t just about finding love.

It’s about becoming the woman who can attract it, receive it and grow it without losing herself in the process.

You’re not here to play games that require you to shrink, chase, or perform.

You’re here to love as you.

As a woman in her power and her wholeness.

With love, Jiveny
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Say yes and become the woman who attracts real, lasting love.

Convenient

Get Started Today

4 x Monthly Payments:
$330 USD
  • Lifetime access to the entire program, Q&A sessions + bonus trainings
  • Audio, video and written materials to support your learning
  • Connection to a community of magnetic women on the same path inside our private Telegram group
Best Value

Pay In Full + Save

One Time Payment Of:
$1200 USD
  • Lifetime access to the entire program, Q&A sessions + bonus trainings
  • Audio, video and written materials to support your learning
  • Connection to a community of magnetic women on the same path inside our private Telegram group
What Women Are Saying
“I feel so much more attractive than I used to because I finally know how to use my feminine power.”
Sophie, 34
“Shortly after finishing the course, I met my now-partner and it’s the healthiest, most fulfilling relationship I’ve ever had!”
Paula, 34
“I'm now married to the man of my dreams - which is huge, because I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before!”
Lauren, 33
“Choosing to do AOA has been the best money I’ve ever spent on investing in myself and my future! Initially I was worried it was too much to spend on myself, but after the first lesson, it just confirmed that I had made the right decision.”
Amy, 41
“I used to think relationships just weren’t for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man.”
Margaret, 72
“The Alchemy of Attraction course was so eye-opening!! I learned to identify the behaviours that were pushing men away and discovered how to access the most magnetic, attractive version of myself.”
Sarah, 33
“Since doing this course I've felt more sure of myself and more aware of the patterns and dynamics that tend to play out in my dating experiences. I’ve also started dating a wonderful guy and have felt confident in progressing the relationship.”
Christie, 37
“Now, my entire dating approach feels calmer, more grounded, and more aligned. I’m dating with greater ease, clarity, and a willingness to let things unfold naturally.”
Josie, 35
“If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then doing AOA is an absolute must!”
Sheridan, 34
“AOA is the best personal growth course that I have ever done. It gives you the practical tools you need to build strong relationships in every sphere of your life. You will finish the course feeling like the most amazing woman ever!”
Kate, 31
“I credit The Alchemy of Attraction course with setting me up for long-term sustainable success with my now husband who is literally the man of my dreams!”
Stacey, 34
“I feel so much more attractive than I used to because I finally know how to use my feminine power.”
Sophie, 34
“Shortly after finishing the course, I met my now-partner and it’s the healthiest, most fulfilling relationship I’ve ever had!”
Paula, 34
“I'm now married to the man of my dreams - which is huge, because I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before!”
Lauren, 33
“Choosing to do AOA has been the best money I’ve ever spent on investing in myself and my future! Initially I was worried it was too much to spend on myself, but after the first lesson, it just confirmed that I had made the right decision.”
Amy, 41
“I used to think relationships just weren’t for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man.”
Margaret, 72
“The Alchemy of Attraction course was so eye-opening!! I learned to identify the behaviours that were pushing men away and discovered how to access the most magnetic, attractive version of myself.”
Sarah, 33
“Since doing this course I've felt more sure of myself and more aware of the patterns and dynamics that tend to play out in my dating experiences. I’ve also started dating a wonderful guy and have felt confident in progressing the relationship.”
Christie, 37
“Now, my entire dating approach feels calmer, more grounded, and more aligned. I’m dating with greater ease, clarity, and a willingness to let things unfold naturally.”
Josie, 35
“If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then doing AOA is an absolute must!”
Sheridan, 34
“AOA is the best personal growth course that I have ever done. It gives you the practical tools you need to build strong relationships in every sphere of your life. You will finish the course feeling like the most amazing woman ever!”
Kate, 31
“I credit The Alchemy of Attraction course with setting me up for long-term sustainable success with my now husband who is literally the man of my dreams!”
Stacey, 34
Your questions answered

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes. The Alchemy of Attraction offers a unique approach that blends deep inner work with practical dating strategy - and what I teach inside this container is something you’ll be hard-pressed to find anywhere else. If you’ve done other work but still feel stuck, this is designed to take you deeper and help you create lasting change.

It depends on your budget and the level of support you’re looking for. My 1:1 packages start at $6,000 and include The Alchemy of Attraction as the core foundation. If you're after high-touch, personalised guidance and are ready to invest, you can apply - just note that spots are limited and often fill quickly, so availability isn’t guaranteed.

You’ll want to set aside about 90 minutes a week during teaching weeks (we meet three weeks out of each month). Integration weeks are yours to rest, reflect, or revisit the material at your own pace. That said - this course is designed for busy people. You can access everything from your phone, so feel free to listen while you drive, walk, clean - whatever works for you. Just taking it in can be life-changing.

All sessions are held live via Zoom on a Friday at 12.30pm AEST and are recorded so you can catch up or rewatch anytime. You’ll receive call links and access to replays in your course portal within 24 hours.

That’s totally okay - and actually, this is a great time to do this work. Many women join before getting back out there, so they can date with clarity, confidence, and a new energetic foundation.

This is an open-enrollment program, so there’s no cap on numbers - but in past rounds, we’ve had between 10-15 participants, and I expect a similar range. If more women join this round, it only enriches the experience with more diversity, shared insights, and collective support. Whether there are 8 or 30 of us, the space will be intimate, powerful, and well-held.

Due to the energetic nature of this container and the instant access to materials, there are no refunds. Your enrolment is a commitment to yourself - and I’m here to support you fully in making the most of it.

You’re not alone - and you’re not broken. This program is designed to help you reconnect with your radiance, shift your patterns, and start attracting emotionally available partners who are ready for what you’re ready for.

You’ll receive lifetime access to all content, including any future updates or bonus resources added over time - so you can return to the teachings again and again as you grow.

Yes. Every Q&A call includes opportunities to ask questions and receive direct guidance from me. Plus, you’ll have access to a private community for connection between calls - and if you’d like deeper support, there’s an option to upgrade to 1:1 coaching.

I get it - I’ve been there too. That’s why The Alchemy of Attraction is designed to be easy to start, simple to follow, and powerful enough to return to again and again. You’ll get lifetime access, and all modules are available in audio format so you can listen on the go - whether you're walking the dog or driving to work. Many past students loved it so much they’ve done it multiple times, gaining new insights with each round. This isn’t just a course you complete - it’s one that keeps growing with you.

There are two ways you can do this, either submit a question through the online group or join me for one of the regular group Q&A sessions, where I'll answer you live during the online call.

You’ve got the clarity - now it’s time to claim the transformation.

A water lily on still water

Ready to stop settling for scraps and start making extraordinary love your new standard?

The Alchemy of Attraction isn’t just a program.

It’s a reclamation.

Of your confidence. Your boundaries. Your radiance.

Of the version of you who knows she’s worth it - and won’t settle for anything less.