There are surface reasons why your past relationships didn’t work out but you wonder how much of it comes down to your own lack of skills and understanding.
Once you eventually get a partner you find yourself on either side of the scale; either pushing too hard for things to move forward or not showing enough interest and keeping walls up. In the end you simply find yourself overthinking things which is exhausting and you feel so over it!
You wish you had a strong relationship with someone however you feel anxious about opening up and letting someone new into your life completely.
You brush off dating and say you’re not available due to work commitments however it’s really because deep down you are fearful that you may not ever have the relationship you truly desire.
Too often when you meet someone you’re attracted to, the feeling is not mutual and yet you have people you’re not so interested in pursuing you.
Your parents and/or close friends seem to have met their partners organically and try to be encouraging by telling you it will happen for you... eventually. But as time goes on you’re starting to lose hope in finding the right partner.
Our VIP coaching programs allow you to directly work with Brisbane dating coaches Jiveny and Joe. Through joining our 1:1 program you’ll be guided and taught how to shape a healthy dating mindset, identify and overcome obstacles that may be getting in your way and attract and create a healthy, lasting relationship.
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It’s time to level up your dating experience with our range of coaching programs. These programs allow you to gain clearer insight into today's world of dating as we unpack the fundamental differences between the sexes along with the dating principles and skills you need to understand to find success.
We are a husband and wife coaching team that have spent our fair share of time in the dating trenches. Yep, before we met we experienced all that dating had to offer including the tears and heartbreak. But from this personal experience along with our broad knowledge of relationships, continued professional development, coaching experience and ongoing study of evolutionary psychology and human behavior we have developed a practical methodology to help you find success with dating. This approach is called the Attraction Styles Method and will support you to learn valuable dating and relationship skills so that you can attract and find a healthy, lasting relationship too.
Before working with Jiveny I was struggling with choosing the wrong men and navigating my insecurities. I wanted a serious, committed relationship but I often had trouble keeping guys interested or would wind up chasing them away. Other times, I would go for an easy guy who liked me (which was never very satisfying).
Since working together, I’ve noticed a huge shift in my mindset and approach to dating for the better. I’m much more able to manage my reactions and approach, allowing the guys I am interested in to come to me.
I’ve now met a great guy who is proactive in building a healthy relationship with me and who puts effort in to keep things fun and interesting. Even better he also takes an interest in personal development and makes open communication feel effortless and natural. Overall, I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed and I cannot recommend Jiveny highly enough!
I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners.
Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me.
SAM, 27 | PROJECT MANAGER
Before working with Jiveny I had just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again. After working with Jiveny I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour. I was much more able to identify partners that were not suitable for me and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.
Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! I know what I want and deserve in a partner and I am able to bring my best self to the relationship. I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.
Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what l'd done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn't tell if I
was moving forwards or backwards. I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else. ever been able to say before.
I was disillusioned with my dating life and seeking a long-term healthy relationship so I contacted Jiveny. From our very first session, I felt comfortable and excited to begin working with her.
Through our work, she helped me identify my barriers, clarify what I wanted in a partner and what a healthy relationship looked like. I was also able to identify the mistakes I had been making. This work has really helped me to developed much more confidence in dating and relationship and I was excited to put what we worked on into practice.
I am now in the best relationship I have ever had and excited for the future. I attribute this to the work I did with Jiveny. Whether you are in the dating world or in a relationship, I would not hesitate in recommending Jiveny. She has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I’ve been in a long time.
Before working with Jiveny I had been meandering the online dating circuit for about 18 months with no real luck beyond a third date. Jiveny helped me to understand the destructive patterns I had created for myself and assisted me in developing a greater awareness of the ways in which I was self-sabotaging my love life.
Throughout our sessions together, I felt a genuine sense of care from Jiveny and never rushed. Her course materials and resources are fantastic and really helped me to get clear on what I want from a relationship and why. The best support has been in understanding the decisions I have made and how these have drawn the wrong kinds of people to me in the past. The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.
Best of all, I am now in a healthy long-term relationship with a wonderful man.
Jiveny gave me permission to speak openly about some of my deepest fears, anxieties, desires and dreams and was completely present with me as I talked. Her questions guided me to self-assess and reflect on my own beliefs and attitudes in ways that I had never considered before.
Through this, I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. Most of all, Jiveny helped me identify the deeper core feelings and unmet needs stopping me from living my life fully. After our coaching sessions I've felt a deeper sense clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.
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