The Boy is a powerful dating archetype. It means you're generally fun to be around, and able to develop meaningful connections quickly with your playful and warm personality.
Your true power comes from your ability to trust yourself, others, and the universe. The more you trust, the more you'll be supported. You have to be an active participant in authoring your own life if you want to experience your deepest heart's desires.
You see and expect the best in others, including your romantic partners. However, you can often fail to see the important role that leadership and long-term vision play in building a healthy relationship - a lack of which can lead to tension and stagnation.
Be careful not to fall into attention-seeking patterns to get external validation. Your healthiest version is an empowered Boy, not a Drifter.
Spontaneous, funny, and kind - you're generally a fun person to be around. Thrives in the unknown and willing to focus on building playful connections. Can help people forget the seriousness of life for a while. Women can feel deeply seen, accepted, and understood by the Boy.
Loves to please - but can wind up feeling frustrated and overlooked. A lack of vision and purpose in life can leave you feeling lost and directionless. Non-decisions often become a decision in themselves and can prevent you from making more satisfying progress. When feeling insecure, your childlike joy can retreat into childish hurt.
“I am in charge of my own destiny.”
I'm Joe, the men's coach and one half of Dating For Love. My work focuses on helping men (interested in dating women) build the sustainable attraction needed to attract a high-quality partner and secure a satisfying long-term relationship.
This starts with gaining knowledge of yourself, and how you approach your relationships. Through understanding attraction dynamics we can improve our relationship skills and expand our opportunities to find a great partner. Men's dating strategies are governed by 4 key archetypes - this is just one of them. They all need to be in balance so we can lean into our super-powers and avoid falling prey to our shadow sides.
The 9-week intensive for men ready to stop circling and start choosing.
A real method, real archetypes, real partner-selection skills. The Family Man is the program for men ready to be someone's husband - not someone's situationship. Five modules across nine weeks plus the four archetypes of masculine attraction.
An open-hearted guy who doesn't judge and sees the best in everyone.
A man on a mission, unafraid to claim what is his.
Read →A pleasure-seeker who thrives in the thrill of the chase.
Read →A thoughtful, generous man who is aware of the needs of others.
Read →All four archetypes need to be in balance for sustainable masculine attraction.
If you're ready to develop the four archetypes into a real partner-selection strategy - and stop running the same dating loop - The Family Man is the 9-week intensive. Or if you'd rather work 1:1, book a coaching call.