Some date for fun. Others for validation. A few are still working out what they're even looking for. And then there are the people we built this practice for - the ones who are genuinely dating for love. People like you, looking for someone special to share the next chapters of life with.
If that's you, you're in the right place. Here's how we can help.
Our approach is built on authentic action, real relationship skills, and the kind of attraction that holds up after the dopamine fades. Contrary to most of the dating-coach industry, you won't find pickup tactics or alpha-male nonsense here. Our philosophy is simple: if you want a satisfying relationship, you have to begin as you wish to continue - without playing games or wearing a false mask.
Four people, two countries, one practice. Every coaching session is held by a real human being who has done the work themselves before they ever asked you to.
In the modern era, people seem to have lost faith in relationships, yet long for one more than ever. We understand the paradox - relationships can be either our biggest source of happiness (if we get it right) or our biggest source of misery (if we get it wrong).
Most people have bought into the fairytale that good love will just happen to us when the time is right. And when it doesn't happen on schedule, we start beating ourselves up and wondering what's wrong with me. The truth is, love is not enough on its own. Getting the love you want requires effort and thoughtfulness.
By supporting people to develop dating and relationship skills, we've watched clients build relationships that are fun, meaningful, and secure - over and over again. What's even better is the ripple effect. Relationship skills are life skills. They help us connect, find belonging, and lead with habits that the people around us tend to follow.
Since 2016 we've watched the same key relationship skills and habits show up in every healthy partnership our clients have built. We've distilled them into the four Dating For Love archetypes.
Each archetype reflects a key element of a healthy relationship - safe, effective, warm, and sexy. They're designed to help you identify and develop the dating and relationship skills you need, and communicate those skills to a potential partner while you're getting to know them.
Our framework helps you get clear on what you actually bring to a relationship - the good and the bad - and where to put your energy first to build a relationship from a place of mutual respect and love.
“I'm now married to the man of my dreams - which is huge, because I didn't think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship.”
Before working with Jiveny I had just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn't want to repeat the same mistakes. I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour - I was much more able to identify partners that weren't suitable and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better. Best of all, this journey led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence.
“I was shy, defeatist, and lacked direction. I never imagined how much things could change.”
Thanks to our sessions, I learned how to step out of my comfort zone and build confidence in social settings. I also found the courage to pursue a crush, and it has turned out to be reciprocated. I'm now in a secure, committed relationship with an incredible woman I met through trivia night at my cricket club. For the first time, I've been able to fully be myself.
“I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with.”
Before working with Jiveny I had experienced a handful of serious relationships that I'd mostly sabotaged. The work we did together was ground-breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the whys and hows behind my failed relationships. Applying what I learned in the early stages of this new relationship really helped us progress in a much healthier way.
Take the 2-minute Attraction Archetype quiz. Knowing your archetype reveals your strengths and your pitfalls - and the closer you can get to understanding modern dating dynamics, the better your odds of finding the right partner.
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