The Attraction Archetypes Quiz

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For each statement, choose how true it is of you in your dating and relationships. Your first, honest reaction is almost always the most accurate one. There are no good or bad answers, and no archetype is better than another. Please answer every statement - skipped items skew your results.

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I have a clear vision for where my life is going.
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I can make a date feel light, playful and genuinely fun.
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I mistake intense chemistry for real connection.
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I am steady and dependable when things get hard.
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I avoid the hard decision and let things drift until it makes itself.
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Letting my guard down and being vulnerable on a date is hard for me.
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I know how to create a spark and a sense of romance.
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I am told I would make a wonderful husband, by women who choose someone else.
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I am curious about people and easy to open up to.
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I can ask directly for what I want.
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I put other people's needs ahead of my own until resentment creeps in.
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I bring real presence to intimacy, emotional as well as physical.
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Women enjoy my company, then build their future with someone else.
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I notice what a partner needs, often before she says it.
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I measure the women I date against a standard few real people could meet.
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When things start to get serious, my instinct is to pull away.
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I can laugh at myself and let go of taking things too seriously.
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I accept poor treatment early on because I do not want to make a fuss.
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I know my worth and I am not interested in settling.
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I am comfortable with my own desire and at ease expressing it.
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If I am honest, I am not sure where my own life is heading.
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I can hold space for someone's emotions without rushing to fix them.
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I catch myself trying to impress a date rather than connect with her.
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I lose interest once the chase is over.
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Spontaneity comes naturally to me.
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My care comes out as duty and service more than as desire.
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I am comfortable making decisions and taking the lead.
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I can make a woman feel seen, and comfortable in her own skin.
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I keep things light partly so I do not have to look at the bigger questions.
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I hold a long-term view and think about the life we could build.
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I cut things off quickly when someone does not measure up, and rarely look back.
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Physical intimacy is sometimes my way of avoiding emotional intimacy.
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