Become the man she’s been looking for.

I found working with Joe insightful as it enabled me to get a different perspective on my experiences and develop a more constructive way forward. Before doing this work, I was constantly diving into the deep end, without any real method to what I was doing and I couldn’t tell if I was moving forwards or backwards.

The archetypes provided a helpful frame of reference that allowed me to better understand myself and the people I was dating. It also highlighted some of the unconstructive traits and behaviours I was unconsciously contributing. Now I have a much greater awareness of relationships and feel more confident in myself and my interpretation of other people’s character.

When I first started coaching with Joe, I was shy, defeatist, and lacked direction in dating. I never imagined how much things could change. Thanks to our sessions, I learned how to step out of my comfort zone and build confidence in social settings. I also found the courage to pursue a crush, and it has turned out to be reciprocated.

Fast forward to today: I’m engaged to an incredible woman I met through a trivia night at my cricket club. She’s everything I’ve ever wanted - intelligent, kind, and effortlessly stunning. For the first time, I’ve been able to fully be myself in a relationship, sharing openly and feeling truly seen.

When I first reached out to Joe, I was recovering from a recent breakup and navigating a sort of mid-life crisis around my sense of purpose. In the past I'd had lots of short relationships and hookups as I struggled with neediness, keeping the relationship fun, being monogamous and feeling secure and worthy of a relationship. Learning about the archetypes really opened my eyes to my dating strategy and what needed to change to serve my mission for lasting romance.

Before doing this work I was struggling to meet the right women - I'd been out of the scene for a while and when I did start dating, I was confronted with flakiness and disappointment. Looking back, I can see how I struggled to be direct and was spending too much time trying to convince the wrong women it would be a good idea to date.

Through coaching I became more aware of my blind spots and learned to communicate clearly even if it means rocking the boat. I'm less of a workaholic now, more proactive in meeting new people, and engaged to an amazing woman!