Free tool
What does that text actually mean?
Paste a text-message thread between you and someone you are dating. We will give you three to five observations on the dynamic running underneath the conversation, plus one concrete next move. Two minutes; no sign-up.
What this tool does
A coach's read on the thread - not a script for the next message.
Paste at least three exchanges (the more, the better the read). The tool reads for attachment patterns, who is leading the pacing, and where the dynamic is genuinely working vs running on fumes.
Free, no sign-up. We don't store what you paste. The tool runs on the same Claude model the rest of the DFL site uses; the system prompt that shapes the read is published in the repo. The tool gives you a coach's pattern read - not a script, not a guarantee, and not a substitute for talking to a real human if anything looks acutely off.
Want a real coach to read this with you?
Some patterns need a human to unpick.
If the thread is bringing up something bigger than one conversation - a pattern you keep ending up in, a partner you cannot decide on, a fight you cannot stop having - book a 1:1 call. Coaching is what turns a single read into a relationship strategy.
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