And no, it’s not because you’re “too much” or “not enough.”
If you’re tired of second-guessing your gut, chasing breadcrumbs, or wondering why you keep attracting the same emotionally unavailable types, you’re in the right place.
Maybe you’re feeling stuck in patterns that don’t serve you, or doubting your worth when it comes to love. Deep down, you know something’s gotta shift—you’re just not sure how to get there.
If you’re tired of feeling stuck in unhealthy patterns or unsure of how to attract the love you deserve, you’ve come to the right place. Maybe you find yourself questioning whether you're making the right decisions in dating, wondering why you keep attracting the wrong partners, or feeling unsure of your self-worth when it comes to love. You know there’s more to life than this, but you’re not clear on how to get there.
It’s exhausting trying to navigate dating and long-term relationship building on your own, especially when you keep getting stuck in the same cycles.
You're not alone.
Are you struggling to attract the right relationship?
Are you attracting everything but the right relationship?
But here’s the truth: epic love doesn’t happen by accident. It happens when you’re brave enough to heal, wise enough to shift gears, and supported by someone who knows the terrain. That’s where we come in.
You're not interested in superficial connections or relationships that feel like hard work. Instead, you want depth, authenticity, and a partner who is equally committed to growth.
But the road to this kind of love requires you to heal, grow, and shift your mindset. Which is why you’re looking for someone who can walk alongside you, help you to navigate challenges, provide feedback, and support you as you break through old patterns and embrace new possibilities.
You’re craving a relationship where you feel safe, seen, and celebrated for who you really are. One built on mutual respect, genuine connection, and a shared vision—not smoke, mirrors, or endless “situationships.”
You desire a relationship where you feel truly seen, heard, and loved for who you are—a relationship that is built on trust, communication, and a shared vision for the future.
It’s time to ditch the drama and build the kind of love that actually nourishes you.
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Sound familiar?
If so, our VIP coaching packages were made for you. Through a mix of 1:1 sessions and powerful online tools, I’ll help you drop the drama, reclaim your self-worth, and start attracting love that actually feels good. 💃 ❤️🔥 ✨
They say things like, “I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men,” or “I’m starting to think maybe real love just isn’t in the cards for me.”
I can’t tell you how many smart, self-aware women come to us totally burnt out by modern dating...
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For years, I struggled with low self-worth and kept ending up in relationships that left me feeling unseen, confused, or just plain heartbroken. I questioned myself constantly - Was I asking for too much? Was something wrong with me?
Spoiler alert: nothing was wrong with me. I just hadn’t learned how to choose partners who were truly capable of showing up - and I hadn’t learned how to fully show up for myself, either.
The truth is, I wasn’t actually available for the kind of intimacy I thought I wanted. I was stuck in cycles of chasing love where it wasn’t available, ignoring red flags, and abandoning myself in the process. Sound familiar?
Eventually, I hit a turning point. I stopped trying to fix myself to be loved and instead focused on healing from the inside out. I got radically honest about my patterns, learned how to communicate what I really wanted, and started to truly own my desire for a relationship that felt passionate, playful, and deeply fulfilling.
Now, I help other women do the same—ditch the dating drama, call back their power, and open to a whole new experience of love. Because it’s not about being perfect—it’s about being real, ready, and unapologetically you.
And I know what it really takes to attract and create a deeply fulfilling, committed relationship with ease and confidence.
I can do this because I’ve been where you are…
Tanvi, 24
Since working together I have a much clearer picture of what is important to me, and what I would want out of a relationship and future partner. I have more self-confidence and am able to identify quicker if someone is actually looking for something serious, or if they are following the same patterns as my last relationships. I feel more self-confident and assured in my choices, and have a clearer picture of what is and feels right to me. If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Cara, I think I would have still been dating without understanding my intentions and goals.
Before working with Cara I was in multiple situationships, dating emotionally unavailable men and getting hurt by their lack of commitment.
Francisca, 58
Before working with Cara I felt a bit hopeless about my options for love. Cara is a professional, supportive, kind and wise coach who listens well and holds space for me to be heard. She never judges, even if I’m judging myself! Since working with her, I have become clearer on my relationship requirements, which has brought me a greater sense of self-esteem. If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Cara, I think I would have been less well off emotionally, and not have felt so grounded and sure of myself while dating.
It is incredible to have such a great coach who also has skills in hypnotherapy and deep change work. I always feel heard and respected and that is so valuable, especially when navigating relationship challenges.
Alexela, 36
Cara is the first person I turn to for support and guidance. With just her presence, she creates a safe space of warmth and grace, while offering clarity that gets straight to the heart of the matter. I’ve had the pleasure of working with her individually and in groups, and no matter the setting, she continuously shows up for others with unwavering integrity, knowledge and skill.
Through our work together, I’ve gained so much clarity, compassion, and trust in myself. I now better understand what truly fulfills me, and because of that, I navigate relationships with stronger boundaries and greater confidence.
Joanne, 42
My biggest takeaway was gaining a deeper understanding of how our core fears and motivations shape the way my partner and I show up in our relationship. Understanding our enneagram types has helped us become more patient and empathetic with each other. This awareness has led to more productive conversations and has made it easier to support each other in the ways we truly need. Cara does an amazing job of making the insights practical and personal, so you walk away with real tools to strengthen your connection.
If you want to deepen your relationship through self-awareness and mutual understanding, working with Cara is absolutely worth it!
Pranav, 26
If you choose to work with Cara, I guarantee three things will happen: #1 She will show you your blind spots and limiting beliefs like nobody's business. #2 She will not just help you see or observe those blind spots or limiting beliefs, but she'll help you overcome them effortlessly. #3 She will show you things that you did not even know you needed to see that have been holding you back from accomplishing what you need to accomplish.
"In just the span of 60 minutes Cara was able to reprogram decades of cultural programming that fundamentally affected my relationships with women, transforming my relationship to dating and so many other areas of my life.”
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Guidance and Feedback: Compassionate, honest support to help you uncover your blind spots, shift limiting beliefs, and receive practical tools that actually work.
Accountability and Support: I’ll walk beside you every step of the way—celebrating your wins, holding you through your challenges, and helping you stay aligned with your vision for love.
Practical Tools and Insights: Learn how to date with self-trust, communicate from your truth, and develop the relationship skills needed to create lasting love.
A Safe Space for Growth: You’ll have room to be fully seen, heard, and held without judgment as you rewrite your relationship story and move toward the connection you deeply desire.
What You’ll Receive from 1:1 Coaching
Whether you're navigating self-doubt, struggling to ask for what you truly want, or feeling stuck in cycles of emotional unavailability, I’m here to guide you back to your power and support you in calling in love that feels safe, fun, and fulfilling.
Together, we’ll work through your unique challenges—whether it’s gaining confidence in your dating decisions, healing past emotional wounds, or developing the tools to communicate with authenticity and clarity.
As a dating and relationship coach, I support women in breaking free from painful relationship patterns so they can cultivate confidence, clarity, and meaningful connection.
As a dating and relationship coach, I specialize in helping women like you overcome the barriers that are holding them back from true love and happiness.
How I Can Help
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I want you to know that you can have this! You deserve a love that fills you up, excites you, and supports you in becoming the best version of yourself. And I’m here to help you make that a reality.
What would it be like to wake up every day feeling deeply connected to yourself and excited about the life you're creating?
To attract a partner who truly sees and understands you, and who shares your dreams and values?
To trust yourself fully in your dating decisions, knowing that you're worthy of a love that aligns with who you are?
Take a moment to imagine what's possible for you…
I’m an assistant teacher in the Conscious Relationship Training (Levels 1–5) in Vancouver, have studied Hypnosis with the INLP Center, and continue to expand my skills through the Relationship Coaching Institute. I’ve also led transformational group programs and workshops focused on emotional healing and self-leadership.
With a grounded, heart-led approach, I’ll help you shift unhelpful patterns, gain clarity in your love life, and attract the kind of relationship that feels safe, joyful, and deeply fulfilling.
Hi, I’m Cara. A relationship coach and certified hypnosis practitioner dedicated to helping you create aligned, authentic love—without losing yourself in the process.
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Most who do the initial consult gain valuable insights and appreciate the support I offer. At the end, I’ll share my recommendations, and together we’ll create a tailored plan to achieve your relationship goals.
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In our Zoom call, we'll dive deep into your dating and relationship history, uncover any recurring patterns, and clarify your main goals. This consult ensures we’re on the same page and sets the foundation for our work together.
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Fill out our application form to help me understand your dating and relationship challenges. This allows us to evaluate if my approach is the right fit for you. If it seems to align, I'll invite you to schedule an initial consult.
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I pour my heart and soul into every part of my work — whether it's my 1:1 coaching or supporting the online courses and resources we offer at Dating for Love, which start at just $27. These tools are thoughtfully designed to make deep transformation more accessible, no matter where you're starting from.
When it comes to 1:1 coaching, this is a premium investment because it’s where I’m most hands-on. Packages start at $6,000 AUD and include lifetime access to all of our signature courses—so you’re not only receiving personalised support, but also a comprehensive roadmap to guide your love life for years to come.
This level of commitment reflects the dedicated energy I bring to your transformation. If 1:1 coaching isn’t the right fit right now, I encourage you to explore our range of self-paced programs.
Otherwise, if you’re ready to go deep and receive tailored support, your next step is to book an initial consult for $337. We’ll connect on Zoom, unpack your relationship history and goals, and build a plan to move forward — together.
A premium offering for those ready to invest in themselves...
Is it time to prioritize the love life you truly desire?
Most coaches don't include their prices on their website. We prefer to be upfront about your investment.
Working with us is more than a simple time-for-money equation. We are 100% committed to getting you results which is why it's never just the hour that you connect in for a session, but also the time your coach spends between sessions considering your needs and providing support and extra resources via email.
You may also want to take a moment to consider how much time and frustration you will save yourself by getting some expert dating guidance. Our clients often describe the work that we do as an invaluable asset to their personal development. You can read some past client testimonials below. 👇
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Tanvi, 24
Since working together I have a much clearer picture of what is important to me, and what I would want out of a relationship and future partner. I have more self-confidence and am able to identify quicker if someone is actually looking for something serious, or if they are following the same patterns as my last relationships. I feel more self-confident and assured in my choices, and have a clearer picture of what is and feels right to me. If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Cara, I think I would have still been dating without understanding my intentions and goals.
Before working with Cara I was in multiple situationships, dating emotionally unavailable men and getting hurt by their lack of commitment.
Francisca, 58
Before working with Cara I felt a bit hopeless about my options for love. Cara is a professional, supportive, kind and wise coach who listens well and holds space for me to be heard. She never judges, even if I’m judging myself! Since working with her, I have become clearer on my relationship requirements, which has brought me a greater sense of self-esteem. If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Cara, I think I would have been less well off emotionally, and not have felt so grounded and sure of myself while dating.
It is incredible to have such a great coach who also has skills in hypnotherapy and deep change work. I always feel heard and respected and that is so valuable, especially when navigating relationship challenges.
Alexela, 36
Cara is the first person I turn to for support and guidance. With just her presence, she creates a safe space of warmth and grace, while offering clarity that gets straight to the heart of the matter. I’ve had the pleasure of working with her individually and in groups, and no matter the setting, she continuously shows up for others with unwavering integrity, knowledge and skill.
Through our work together, I’ve gained so much clarity, compassion, and trust in myself. I now better understand what truly fulfills me, and because of that, I navigate relationships with stronger boundaries and greater confidence.
Joanne, 42
My biggest takeaway was gaining a deeper understanding of how our core fears and motivations shape the way my partner and I show up in our relationship. Understanding our enneagram types has helped us become more patient and empathetic with each other. This awareness has led to more productive conversations and has made it easier to support each other in the ways we truly need. Cara does an amazing job of making the insights practical and personal, so you walk away with real tools to strengthen your connection.
If you want to deepen your relationship through self-awareness and mutual understanding, working with Cara is absolutely worth it!
Pranav, 26
If you choose to work with Cara, I guarantee three things will happen: #1 She will show you your blind spots and limiting beliefs like nobody's business. #2 She will not just help you see or observe those blind spots or limiting beliefs, but she'll help you overcome them effortlessly. #3 She will show you things that you did not even know you needed to see that have been holding you back from accomplishing what you need to accomplish.
"In just the span of 60 minutes Cara was able to reprogram decades of cultural programming that fundamentally affected my relationships with women, transforming my relationship to dating and so many other areas of my life.”
