You’ve worked hard to build a successful life. You’ve got your career dialled in, you’re emotionally intelligent, and you’re not afraid of growth. But when it comes to love? It’s still not clicking the way you want it to.
Maybe you keep attracting women who aren’t on the same wavelength. Maybe you're stuck in your head, doubting your moves, or playing it safe to avoid rejection. Or maybe you’ve had a few decent relationships, but if you’re honest, you were never fully met – and part of you stopped expecting that to be possible.
If you’re feeling stuck, frustrated, or like there’s a missing piece, you’re in the right place. Because the truth is, relationships don’t just happen. They’re built. And we can show you how.
Here’s the truth: great love doesn’t just happen. It’s created — when you’re ready to do the inner work, break old patterns, and get support from people who’ve walked the path. That’s where we come in.
Sound familiar?
If so, our VIP coaching packages were built for you. With a mix of tailored 1:1 sessions and powerful online tools, we’ll help you drop what’s not working, get clear on what is, and attract a relationship that actually adds to your life. 💡❤️🔥🚀
We're not here to give you cookie-cutter advice or outdated pickup tactics. We focus on helping men understand the often unspoken dynamics between men and women, build real confidence, and create connections that last.
We believe that great relationships aren’t just about finding the “right” person – they’re about becoming the kind of person who knows how to create love that’s strong, fulfilling, and real. And we’ve walked that path ourselves.
When you work with us, you have the choice of two coaches, each bringing their own unique strengths and experiences to the table.
For years, I just winged it in love, thinking things would eventually fall into place. But after falling hard for the wrong woman and ending up in a toxic relationship that wrecked my confidence, I knew I had to figure this stuff out properly.
That experience forced me to do the deep work – to learn how to build a healthy, powerful relationship from the ground up. It’s what led me to study at the Relationship Coaching Institute and ultimately join forces with my wife, Jiveny, to create Dating for Love.
I know how isolating it can feel when things aren’t working — whether you’re stuck in a bad relationship or just sick of feeling alone. That’s why I’m here: to help you cut through the noise, uncover what’s holding you back, and experience the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted. Sometimes, all it takes is the right guidance to shift everything.
My journey into coaching started with my own struggles in love, where I kept attracting relationships that felt safe on the surface, but lacked the depth and commitment I truly wanted.
Over time, I realised that the problem wasn’t just with who I was choosing – it was with how I was showing up, too. That’s when I dove into deep personal work and studied everything I could about human connection, attraction, and emotional growth.
My background includes training in Hypnosis through the INLP Center, Conscious Relationship Training Levels 1–5 in Vancouver, and ongoing studies with the Relationship Coaching Institute. I bring a unique, intuitive approach that blends practical tools with a deeper understanding of how we relate — and how to shift patterns that hold us back.
I work with both men and women, helping clients gain clarity, build emotional resilience, and develop the skills needed to create a relationship that’s strong, authentic, and aligned with what they really want.
Thanks to our sessions, I learned how to step out of my comfort zone and build confidence in social settings. I also found the courage to pursue a crush, and it has turned out to be reciprocated.
Fast forward to today: I’m in a secure, committed relationship with an incredible woman I met through a trivia night at my cricket club. She’s everything I’ve ever wanted—intelligent, kind, and effortlessly stunning. For the first time, I’ve been able to fully be myself in a relationship, sharing openly and feeling truly seen.
Given many of my early dating experiences were negative (being rejected, ghosted and the like) combined with a lack of relationship experience, I soon realised success would have been difficult to achieve on my own.
These negative experiences were taking a toll on my self-esteem which I knew if left unaddressed could lead me to give up on dating all together. Joe broke the journey down into practical steps which enabled me to feel a sense of progress as I continued to date and let go of self doubt. I’ve since met a gorgeous woman whom I can genuinely see a great future with!
In the past I’d had lots of short relationships and hook-ups as I struggled with neediness, keeping the relationship fun, being monogamous and feeling secure and worthy of a relationship.
Learning about the archetypes in the order that they are presented really opened my eyes to my dating strategy and what needed to change to serve my mission for lasting romance. Life's pretty great and I’m dating a woman I'm pretty into right now which feels really supportive and deep as well as fun and silly.
Some people might consider the idea of a dating coach to be ‘lame,’ but the truth is that the majority of men out there are quite clueless when it comes to dating. I know this because I was one of those men.
While you may eventually learn how to date well through trial and error, working with Joe can greatly expedite the process.
After achieving many of my career goals, I started to really feel the absence of a life partner and how my life could be more fun and lively if I had someone special to share it with.
Joe is kind and genuine – that’s why I started doing coaching with him. I’ve learned a lot from him and think he is a fantastic coach. He is genuinely interested in helping me, and good at understanding the kinds of feelings I'm going through.
Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what I’d done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn’t tell if I was moving forwards or backwards.
I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else.
I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners.
Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me.
My biggest takeaway was gaining a deeper understanding of how our core fears and motivations shape the way my partner and I show up in our relationship. Understanding our enneagram types has helped us become more patient and empathetic with each other. This awareness has led to more productive conversations and has made it easier to support each other in the ways we truly need. Cara does an amazing job of making the insights practical and personal, so you walk away with real tools to strengthen your connection.
Clear Guidance and Real Feedback
We’ll help you spot blind spots, break through unhelpful patterns, and give you practical tools that get real results.
Accountability and Support
You won’t be doing this alone. We’ll keep you on track, challenge you when needed, and help you stay aligned with the relationship you want to create.
Actionable Tools and Insights
Learn how to lead with confidence, communicate clearly, and build the relationship skills that make great love possible—and sustainable.
A Space to Grow and Level Up
This is your space to get honest, make powerful shifts, and build a relationship that adds to your life—without judgment, confusion, or second-guessing.
Whether you’re stuck in your head, struggling to connect with the right kind of women, or tired of relationships that never quite go anywhere – we’ll help you build clarity, confidence, and the skills you need to create a relationship that actually fits your life.
Together, we’ll work through your unique challenges—whether it’s gaining confidence in your dating decisions, healing past emotional wounds, or developing the tools to communicate with authenticity and clarity.
As dating and relationship coaches, we help men break free from frustrating patterns and take a smarter, more intentional approach to love.
As a dating and relationship coach, I specialize in helping women like you overcome the barriers that are holding them back from true love and happiness.
What would it feel like to wake up every day clear, confident, and proud of the life—and relationship—you’re building?
To attract a woman who truly sees you, respects you, and shares your values and vision for the future?
To trust yourself fully in dating, knowing you’ve got the mindset, clarity, and skills to create a relationship that actually lasts?
By the end of your consult, you’ll have valuable insights – and a clear sense of what’s possible. From here, we’ll map out a personalised plan to help you move forward and build the relationship you’ve been looking for.
In this 1:1 online session, we’ll explore your relationship history, spot any patterns holding you back, and get clear on your goals. This call lays the foundation and ensures we’re on the same page before moving forward.
Fill out our application form to tell us about your biggest challenges in dating and relationships. This helps us understand where you’re at and see if we’re the right fit. If it aligns, we’ll invite you to book an initial consult.
We put everything into this work – whether it’s through 1:1 coaching or the online courses and resources we offer at Dating for Love, starting from just $27. These tools are designed to give you real, practical transformation – wherever you’re at.
Our 1:1 coaching is a premium investment because it’s where we’re most hands-on. Packages start at $6,000 AUD and include lifetime access to all of our signature courses – giving you personalised support plus a complete roadmap to help guide your love life for years to come.
This level of commitment reflects the focus and energy we bring to helping you get lasting results. If 1:1 coaching isn’t right for you now, we invite you to check out our self-paced programs.
But if you’re ready to go deep with tailored support, your next step is to book an initial consult for $337. We’ll meet online, unpack your relationship history and goals, and build a solid plan to move forward – together.
Working with us isn’t just a time-for-money exchange. We’re fully invested in your results. That means it’s never just about the hour you spend in a session – it’s about the ongoing support, the strategies tailored to you, and the time we take between sessions to help you stay on track.
Think about how much time, energy, and frustration you’ve already spent trying to figure this out on your own. Now imagine cutting through all that noise with expert guidance designed to save you years of trial and error. Our clients often tell us this work has been a game-changer—not just for their love lives, but for who they become on the other side.
You can read what they’ve said below. 👇
Thanks to our sessions, I learned how to step out of my comfort zone and build confidence in social settings. I also found the courage to pursue a crush, and it has turned out to be reciprocated.
Fast forward to today: I’m in a secure, committed relationship with an incredible woman I met through a trivia night at my cricket club. She’s everything I’ve ever wanted—intelligent, kind, and effortlessly stunning. For the first time, I’ve been able to fully be myself in a relationship, sharing openly and feeling truly seen.
Given many of my early dating experiences were negative (being rejected, ghosted and the like) combined with a lack of relationship experience, I soon realised success would have been difficult to achieve on my own.
These negative experiences were taking a toll on my self-esteem which I knew if left unaddressed could lead me to give up on dating all together. Joe broke the journey down into practical steps which enabled me to feel a sense of progress as I continued to date and let go of self doubt. I’ve since met a gorgeous woman whom I can genuinely see a great future with!
In the past I’d had lots of short relationships and hook-ups as I struggled with neediness, keeping the relationship fun, being monogamous and feeling secure and worthy of a relationship.
Learning about the archetypes in the order that they are presented really opened my eyes to my dating strategy and what needed to change to serve my mission for lasting romance. Life's pretty great and I’m dating a woman I'm pretty into right now which feels really supportive and deep as well as fun and silly.
Some people might consider the idea of a dating coach to be ‘lame,’ but the truth is that the majority of men out there are quite clueless when it comes to dating. I know this because I was one of those men.
While you may eventually learn how to date well through trial and error, working with Joe can greatly expedite the process.
After achieving many of my career goals, I started to really feel the absence of a life partner and how my life could be more fun and lively if I had someone special to share it with.
Joe is kind and genuine – that’s why I started doing coaching with him. I’ve learned a lot from him and think he is a fantastic coach. He is genuinely interested in helping me, and good at understanding the kinds of feelings I'm going through.
Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what I’d done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn’t tell if I was moving forwards or backwards.
I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else.
I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners.
Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me.
My biggest takeaway was gaining a deeper understanding of how our core fears and motivations shape the way my partner and I show up in our relationship. Understanding our enneagram types has helped us become more patient and empathetic with each other. This awareness has led to more productive conversations and has made it easier to support each other in the ways we truly need. Cara does an amazing job of making the insights practical and personal, so you walk away with real tools to strengthen your connection.
That’s why we only work with people who are serious about change, starting with a focused, 1:1 strategy session.
For $337, you’ll get a dedicated, in-depth session where we’ll:
✅ Dive into your unique dating and relationship history
✅ Get clear on what you truly want in a partner—and in love
✅ Start shaping a personalised roadmap to get you there
Clients often tell us this session alone brings clarity, relief, and a renewed sense of momentum.
If you’re ready to stop guessing and start building something real, this is where it begins.
Relationship growth (support for couples already in long-term relationships)
Support for people in new relationships
Improving your social skills and expanding your friendship network
Understanding women and how to connect on a deeper level
Creating the foundations for a healthy relationship
Managing healthy boundaries with women
Men's style support and advice
Mock dates for honest feedback
Making the most of offline dating opportunities
Maximising your online dating profile
If you choose to upgrade within 30 days, we’ll credit whatever you paid toward your 1:1 coaching package. This way you can get a taste of the work and decide if you want more.
Not sure about diving straight into 1:1 coaching? Get started with one of our exclusive online programs to explore our philosophy and approach.
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