You’ve worked hard to build a successful life. You’ve got your career dialled in, you’re emotionally intelligent, and you’re not afraid of growth. But when it comes to love? It’s still not clicking the way you want it to.
Maybe you keep attracting women who aren’t on the same wavelength. Maybe you're stuck in your head, doubting your moves, or playing it safe to avoid rejection. Or maybe you’ve had a few decent relationships, but if you’re honest, you were never fully met – and part of you stopped expecting that to be possible.
If you’re feeling stuck, frustrated, or like there’s a missing piece, you’re in the right place. Because the truth is, relationships don’t just happen. They’re built. And we can show you how.
You’re crushing it in life – but love still feels like a blind spot.
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Here’s the truth: great love doesn’t just happen. It’s created — when you’re ready to do the inner work, break old patterns, and get support from people who’ve walked the path. That’s where we come in.
You want something real — where you feel respected, understood, and fully yourself. A relationship built on trust, depth, and shared direction — not surface-level sparks, mixed signals, or another “almost” that goes nowhere.
It’s time to stop winging it and start building a relationship that actually adds to your life.
Sound familiar?
If so, our VIP coaching packages were built for you. With a mix of tailored 1:1 sessions and powerful online tools, we’ll help you drop what’s not working, get clear on what is, and attract a relationship that actually adds to your life. 💡❤️🔥🚀
They say things like, “I’m doing everything I can, but I’m still not meeting the right kind of women,” or “Maybe I’m just better off focusing on work.”
I can’t tell you how many smart, successful men come to us totally over the games...
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We're not here to give you cookie-cutter advice or outdated pickup tactics. We focus on helping men understand the often unspoken dynamics between men and women, build real confidence, and create connections that last.
We believe that great relationships aren’t just about finding the “right” person – they’re about becoming the kind of person who knows how to create love that’s strong, fulfilling, and real. And we’ve walked that path ourselves.
When you work with us, you have the choice of two coaches, each bringing their own unique strengths and experiences to the table.
At Dating for Love, we take a no-nonsense, wholehearted approach to love and relationships.
We can do this because we’ve been where you are – and we’ve spent years studying what really makes relationships work.
For years, I just winged it in love, thinking things would eventually fall into place. But after falling hard for the wrong woman and ending up in a toxic relationship that wrecked my confidence, I knew I had to figure this stuff out properly.
That experience forced me to do the deep work – to learn how to build a healthy, powerful relationship from the ground up. It’s what led me to study at the Relationship Coaching Institute and ultimately join forces with my wife, Jiveny, to create Dating for Love.
I know how isolating it can feel when things aren’t working — whether you’re stuck in a bad relationship or just sick of feeling alone. That’s why I’m here: to help you cut through the noise, uncover what’s holding you back, and experience the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted. Sometimes, all it takes is the right guidance to shift everything.
Hey, I’m Joe. Relationships didn’t always come easy to me—I’ve had my fair share of awkward moments, mixed signals, and more than one relationship fail.
Meet Joe Oppenheimer
Men's Coach and Co-founder of dating for love
My journey into coaching started with my own struggles in love, where I kept attracting relationships that felt safe on the surface, but lacked the depth and commitment I truly wanted.
Over time, I realised that the problem wasn’t just with who I was choosing – it was with how I was showing up, too. That’s when I dove into deep personal work and studied everything I could about human connection, attraction, and emotional growth.
My background includes training in Hypnosis through the INLP Center, Conscious Relationship Training Levels 1–5 in Vancouver, and ongoing studies with the Relationship Coaching Institute. I bring a unique, intuitive approach that blends practical tools with a deeper understanding of how we relate — and how to shift patterns that hold us back.
I work with both men and women, helping clients gain clarity, build emotional resilience, and develop the skills needed to create a relationship that’s strong, authentic, and aligned with what they really want.
Hi, I’m Cara. I know what it’s like to feel stuck in patterns that don’t serve you—thinking you’re doing everything right, only to end up with results that don’t feel great.
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dating & Relationship coach
Ben, 28
Thanks to our sessions, I learned how to step out of my comfort zone and build confidence in social settings. I also found the courage to pursue a crush, and it has turned out to be reciprocated.
Fast forward to today: I’m in a secure, committed relationship with an incredible woman I met through a trivia night at my cricket club. She’s everything I’ve ever wanted—intelligent, kind, and effortlessly stunning. For the first time, I’ve been able to fully be myself in a relationship, sharing openly and feeling truly seen.
When I first started coaching with Joe, I was shy, defeatist, and lacked direction in dating. I never imagined how much things could change.
Julian, 40
Given many of my early dating experiences were negative (being rejected, ghosted and the like) combined with a lack of relationship experience, I soon realised success would have been difficult to achieve on my own.
These negative experiences were taking a toll on my self-esteem which I knew if left unaddressed could lead me to give up on dating all together. Joe broke the journey down into practical steps which enabled me to feel a sense of progress as I continued to date and let go of self doubt. I’ve since met a gorgeous woman whom I can genuinely see a great future with!
Now I’m dating a wonderful woman and have a much greater awareness of relationships. I also feel much more confident in myself.
Pranav, 26
If you choose to work with Cara, I guarantee three things will happen: #1 She will show you your blind spots and limiting beliefs like nobody's business. #2 She will not just help you see or observe those blind spots or limiting beliefs, but she'll help you overcome them effortlessly. #3 She will show you things that you did not even know you needed to see that have been holding you back from accomplishing what you need to accomplish.
"In just the span of 60 minutes Cara was able to reprogram decades of cultural programming that fundamentally affected my relationships with women, transforming my relationship to dating and so many other areas of my life.”
Patrick, 37
In the past I’d had lots of short relationships and hook-ups as I struggled with neediness, keeping the relationship fun, being monogamous and feeling secure and worthy of a relationship.
Learning about the archetypes in the order that they are presented really opened my eyes to my dating strategy and what needed to change to serve my mission for lasting romance. Life's pretty great and I’m dating a woman I'm pretty into right now which feels really supportive and deep as well as fun and silly.
I appreciate the dedication Joe has to this work as it clearly springs from his own dedication to be the best man he can be.
KELVIN, 27
Some people might consider the idea of a dating coach to be ‘lame,’ but the truth is that the majority of men out there are quite clueless when it comes to dating. I know this because I was one of those men.
While you may eventually learn how to date well through trial and error, working with Joe can greatly expedite the process.
Working with Joe makes me feel like I am able to take manageable steps towards my goals of becoming socially confident and taking control of my dating life.
Arpan, 38
After achieving many of my career goals, I started to really feel the absence of a life partner and how my life could be more fun and lively if I had someone special to share it with.
Joe is kind and genuine – that’s why I started doing coaching with him. I’ve learned a lot from him and think he is a fantastic coach. He is genuinely interested in helping me, and good at understanding the kinds of feelings I'm going through.
I've learned a lot from Joe and think he's a fantastic coach!
WILLIAM, 34
Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what I’d done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn’t tell if I was moving forwards or backwards.
I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else.
Since working together I’ve become better at handling and reflecting on the ups and downs, as well as having a better approach to this whole dating thing.
SAM, 27
I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners.
Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me.
Before working with Joe, I was always pursuing women that made me feel crazy and led to toxic relationships
Joanne, 42
My biggest takeaway was gaining a deeper understanding of how our core fears and motivations shape the way my partner and I show up in our relationship. Understanding our enneagram types has helped us become more patient and empathetic with each other. This awareness has led to more productive conversations and has made it easier to support each other in the ways we truly need. Cara does an amazing job of making the insights practical and personal, so you walk away with real tools to strengthen your connection.
If you want to deepen your relationship through self-awareness and mutual understanding, working with Cara is absolutely worth it!
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Clear Guidance and Real Feedback
We’ll help you spot blind spots, break through unhelpful patterns, and give you practical tools that get real results.
Accountability and Support
You won’t be doing this alone. We’ll keep you on track, challenge you when needed, and help you stay aligned with the relationship you want to create.
Actionable Tools and Insights
Learn how to lead with confidence, communicate clearly, and build the relationship skills that make great love possible—and sustainable.
A Space to Grow and Level Up
This is your space to get honest, make powerful shifts, and build a relationship that adds to your life—without judgment, confusion, or second-guessing.
What You’ll Receive from 1:1 Coaching
Whether you’re stuck in your head, struggling to connect with the right kind of women, or tired of relationships that never quite go anywhere – we’ll help you build clarity, confidence, and the skills you need to create a relationship that actually fits your life.
Together, we’ll work through your unique challenges—whether it’s gaining confidence in your dating decisions, healing past emotional wounds, or developing the tools to communicate with authenticity and clarity.
As dating and relationship coaches, we help men break free from frustrating patterns and take a smarter, more intentional approach to love.
As a dating and relationship coach, I specialize in helping women like you overcome the barriers that are holding them back from true love and happiness.
How We Can Help
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You can have this. You deserve a relationship that challenges you, inspires you, and supports you in being the best version of yourself—and we’re here to help you make that your reality.
What would it feel like to wake up every day clear, confident, and proud of the life—and relationship—you’re building?
To attract a woman who truly sees you, respects you, and shares your values and vision for the future?
To trust yourself fully in dating, knowing you’ve got the mindset, clarity, and skills to create a relationship that actually lasts?
Take a moment to imagine what's possible for you…
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By the end of your consult, you’ll have valuable insights – and a clear sense of what’s possible. From here, we’ll map out a personalised plan to help you move forward and build the relationship you’ve been looking for.
Choose Your Coaching Program
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In this 1:1 online session, we’ll explore your relationship history, spot any patterns holding you back, and get clear on your goals. This call lays the foundation and ensures we’re on the same page before moving forward.
Book an Initial Consult
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Fill out our application form to tell us about your biggest challenges in dating and relationships. This helps us understand where you’re at and see if we’re the right fit. If it aligns, we’ll invite you to book an initial consult.
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Your Journey With Us
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We put everything into this work – whether it’s through 1:1 coaching or the online courses and resources we offer at Dating for Love, starting from just $27. These tools are designed to give you real, practical transformation – wherever you’re at.
Our 1:1 coaching is a premium investment because it’s where we’re most hands-on. Packages start at $6,000 AUD and include lifetime access to all of our signature courses – giving you personalised support plus a complete roadmap to help guide your love life for years to come.
This level of commitment reflects the focus and energy we bring to helping you get lasting results. If 1:1 coaching isn’t right for you now, we invite you to check out our self-paced programs.
But if you’re ready to go deep with tailored support, your next step is to book an initial consult for $337. We’ll meet online, unpack your relationship history and goals, and build a solid plan to move forward – together.
A premium offer for men ready to invest in real results.
Is it time to prioritize the love life you actually want?
Working with us isn’t just a time-for-money exchange. We’re fully invested in your results. That means it’s never just about the hour you spend in a session – it’s about the ongoing support, the strategies tailored to you, and the time we take between sessions to help you stay on track.
Think about how much time, energy, and frustration you’ve already spent trying to figure this out on your own. Now imagine cutting through all that noise with expert guidance designed to save you years of trial and error. Our clients often tell us this work has been a game-changer—not just for their love lives, but for who they become on the other side.
You can read what they’ve said below. 👇
Most coaches hide their prices. We’d rather be upfront.
Wondering if it’s worth the investment? Let’s be real – what’s it costing you to stay stuck?
Ben, 28
Thanks to our sessions, I learned how to step out of my comfort zone and build confidence in social settings. I also found the courage to pursue a crush, and it has turned out to be reciprocated.
Fast forward to today: I’m in a secure, committed relationship with an incredible woman I met through a trivia night at my cricket club. She’s everything I’ve ever wanted—intelligent, kind, and effortlessly stunning. For the first time, I’ve been able to fully be myself in a relationship, sharing openly and feeling truly seen.
When I first started coaching with Joe, I was shy, defeatist, and lacked direction in dating. I never imagined how much things could change.
Julian, 40
Given many of my early dating experiences were negative (being rejected, ghosted and the like) combined with a lack of relationship experience, I soon realised success would have been difficult to achieve on my own.
These negative experiences were taking a toll on my self-esteem which I knew if left unaddressed could lead me to give up on dating all together. Joe broke the journey down into practical steps which enabled me to feel a sense of progress as I continued to date and let go of self doubt. I’ve since met a gorgeous woman whom I can genuinely see a great future with!
Now I’m dating a wonderful woman and have a much greater awareness of relationships. I also feel much more confident in myself.
Pranav, 26
If you choose to work with Cara, I guarantee three things will happen: #1 She will show you your blind spots and limiting beliefs like nobody's business. #2 She will not just help you see or observe those blind spots or limiting beliefs, but she'll help you overcome them effortlessly. #3 She will show you things that you did not even know you needed to see that have been holding you back from accomplishing what you need to accomplish.
"In just the span of 60 minutes Cara was able to reprogram decades of cultural programming that fundamentally affected my relationships with women, transforming my relationship to dating and so many other areas of my life.”
Patrick, 37
In the past I’d had lots of short relationships and hook-ups as I struggled with neediness, keeping the relationship fun, being monogamous and feeling secure and worthy of a relationship.
Learning about the archetypes in the order that they are presented really opened my eyes to my dating strategy and what needed to change to serve my mission for lasting romance. Life's pretty great and I’m dating a woman I'm pretty into right now which feels really supportive and deep as well as fun and silly.
I appreciate the dedication Joe has to this work as it clearly springs from his own dedication to be the best man he can be.
KELVIN, 27
Some people might consider the idea of a dating coach to be ‘lame,’ but the truth is that the majority of men out there are quite clueless when it comes to dating. I know this because I was one of those men.
While you may eventually learn how to date well through trial and error, working with Joe can greatly expedite the process.
Working with Joe makes me feel like I am able to take manageable steps towards my goals of becoming socially confident and taking control of my dating life.
Arpan, 38
After achieving many of my career goals, I started to really feel the absence of a life partner and how my life could be more fun and lively if I had someone special to share it with.
Joe is kind and genuine – that’s why I started doing coaching with him. I’ve learned a lot from him and think he is a fantastic coach. He is genuinely interested in helping me, and good at understanding the kinds of feelings I'm going through.
I've learned a lot from Joe and think he's a fantastic coach!
WILLIAM, 34
Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what I’d done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn’t tell if I was moving forwards or backwards.
I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else.
Since working together I’ve become better at handling and reflecting on the ups and downs, as well as having a better approach to this whole dating thing.
SAM, 27
I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners.
Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me.
Before working with Joe, I was always pursuing women that made me feel crazy and led to toxic relationships
Joanne, 42
My biggest takeaway was gaining a deeper understanding of how our core fears and motivations shape the way my partner and I show up in our relationship. Understanding our enneagram types has helped us become more patient and empathetic with each other. This awareness has led to more productive conversations and has made it easier to support each other in the ways we truly need. Cara does an amazing job of making the insights practical and personal, so you walk away with real tools to strengthen your connection.
If you want to deepen your relationship through self-awareness and mutual understanding, working with Cara is absolutely worth it!
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Initial Consult
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That’s why we only work with people who are serious about change, starting with a focused, 1:1 strategy session.
For $337, you’ll get a dedicated, in-depth session where we’ll:
✅ Dive into your unique dating and relationship history
✅ Get clear on what you truly want in a partner—and in love
✅ Start shaping a personalised roadmap to get you there
Clients often tell us this session alone brings clarity, relief, and a renewed sense of momentum.
If you’re ready to stop guessing and start building something real, this is where it begins.
We’re not in the business of chasing clients, and we respect your time as much as ours.
investment
We don’t do free sales calls – and here’s why.
$337 AUD
$225 USD
Relationship growth (support for couples already in long-term relationships)
Support for people in new relationships
Improving your social skills and expanding your friendship network
Understanding women and how to connect on a deeper level
Creating the foundations for a healthy relationship
Managing healthy boundaries with women
Men's style support and advice
Mock dates for honest feedback
Making the most of offline dating opportunities
Maximising your online dating profile
Examples of the sorts of topics we cover with our clients:
If you choose to upgrade within 30 days, we’ll credit whatever you paid toward your 1:1 coaching package. This way you can get a taste of the work and decide if you want more.
Not sure about diving straight into 1:1 coaching? Get started with one of our exclusive online programs to explore our philosophy and approach.
See if we’re the right fit – without the full commitment.
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This is your next step toward building the deeply connected, fulfilling relationship you’ve been longing for. Once your application is reviewed, we’ll be in touch to explore the best way to move forward – together.
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