Stop guessing why you're not matching
So you stop blaming the apps and start fixing the actual leaks - bio, photos, prompts, sequence.
What's inside the audit
Steal the profile review that walks you through everything a woman is silently judging.
I've seen enough men's profiles - and heard enough women's reactions to them - to know exactly where the leaks are. We open your apps together, screen by screen, and rebuild the parts that aren't earning you matches.
- A 90-minute private 1:1 video session, recorded so you can rewatch
- Screenshot-by-screenshot review of your live dating profiles
- A rewrite of the headline, bio and prompts that aren't pulling weight
- Scenario coaching for what to do AFTER you start getting better matches
What this will do
What changes after a 90-minute audit.
Four shifts the audit installs - so you stop swiping into a void and start matching with women you actually want to meet.
Get the female perspective most men never hear
So you finally know what women see when your profile loads - and what makes them swipe past it.
Walk away with a profile you're proud of
So opening your apps stops feeling like a chore and starts feeling like leverage.
Know what to do after the match
So a good first message doesn't get squandered with the second one. We cover the chat-to-date journey too.
Does this sound like you?
This is for you if:
- You're a high-quality man whose profile is not pulling its weight.
- You've tried tweaking it on your own and want a fresh, female pair of eyes.
- You're tired of general dating advice and want feedback on YOUR profile.
- You're time-poor and want to move from 'fixing the profile' to 'meeting the women' fast.
- You want an honest review from a woman who hears what other women actually say.
If you nodded at any of those, an audit will save you months of swiping into the void.
Why I started offering this
“I'd seen too many great men with terrible profiles.”
Over the years I watched too many of my coaching clients - good, kind, capable men - shoot themselves in the foot with a dating profile that failed to stand out. Their inboxes were quiet for reasons they couldn't see.
I started offering 1:1 audits because the truth is, general advice can be hard to apply to your specific profile. You need an objective outside opinion - and especially one from a woman who works with single men and women on a daily basis.
I hear your complaints. I hear what women say about how men present on dating apps. And in 90 minutes I can show you exactly where you're being misread.
Jiveny
What men say after working with Jiveny.
Real client outcomes
“After working with Jiveny I soon met someone and now we are building a life together.”
When I first started I was plagued with anxiety that I'd never get to have a proper girlfriend. I had low self-esteem and struggled. This work has allowed me to become a lot more conscious of myself and how I'm feeling.
“I have improved my flirting and general conversation skills.”
I have also recognised that most women want a man to take the first step and approach. Together we have worked on developing stronger leadership skills, better understanding women and growing my internal confidence.
“Working with Jiveny has made an astronomical difference to my dating life.”
I have always appreciated Jiveny's approach to understanding what I need and tailoring our sessions accordingly. My work with Jiveny has fundamentally changed the way I view the world around me for the better.
How the audit works
Three steps. One profile that finally pulls its weight.
Most men leave the session with a complete punch list of changes plus the rewritten copy. You can apply it that same evening.
Step 01
Book Your Audit
Pick a slot from my online calendar. If nothing fits your schedule, email me and we'll find another time.
Step 02
Share Your Profile
Once booked, I'll send you a short brief and ask you to forward screenshots of your live dating profiles so I can review them and prep your plan.
Step 03
Join Me Online
We meet on Zoom for 90 minutes. I give you my honest, actionable feedback - bio, photos, prompts, opening lines. Plus my profile-strategy hacks. Recorded so you can rewatch.
Investment:
$440 AUD
One-time payment. 90-minute private 1:1 with Jiveny. Recorded so you can revisit anytime.
Book Your Audit→Men who used to swipe in silence are walking away with a profile they're proud of.
“Her female perspective was helpful because there are just some things we don't learn or pick up on along the way.”
It was helpful to learn the small things that can really make a difference in meeting someone, plus strategies to detach from the outcome of an interaction and be more present with women.
“A warm and non-judgemental approach to coaching.”
I found it fascinating how her questions opened up new possibilities that could be applied to my relationship with my partner immediately. I felt very comfortable working together.
Straight talk on the price
“Most coaches hide their prices and ask you to enquire.”
I'd rather be upfront. The work we do in 90 minutes is invaluable - and it's hard to come by. Getting good, honest, objective advice on the way you present yourself online is a service most men will benefit from once and never need again.
Take a moment to consider how much time, frustration and bad dates you'll save yourself with one block of expert guidance. My clients describe the audit as one of the most useful things they've done for their personal development - and the cheapest part of getting their love life moving.
Real shift, real fast
“Working with Jiveny has made an astronomical difference to my dating life and the relationships I have with my work colleagues and family members.”
I would definitely recommend Jiveny to anyone looking for support in their own journey of personal growth. I have always appreciated her approach to understanding what I need and tailoring our sessions accordingly. My work with Jiveny has fundamentally changed the way I view the world around me for the better.
Inside your audit, I'll show you exactly where the leaks are.
Meet Your Auditor
Hi, I'm Jiveny.
Jiveny Blair-West
Co-Founder & Dating Coach
A dating and attraction coach, a wife, and the woman who'll be sitting on the other end of this Zoom call. For the past decade I've been guiding both men and women through the messy, tender, powerful process of transforming their dating lives - and I see what works on the apps and what gets ignored.
I run audits for men because I hear what women say about men's profiles every day. Tiny shifts - the photo order, the first prompt, the subtle confidence gap in your bio - decide whether a great woman keeps swiping or stops to read. The fixes are not what most men assume.
If you're a high-quality man whose profile isn't pulling its weight, an honest 90-minute female perspective is the cheapest leverage you'll find. (And yes - despite this page sitting under /for-men, my audit door is open to anyone who wants a profile review. Just say so when you book.)
From a real client
“Jiveny has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I've been in a long time.”
I am now in the best relationship I have ever had and excited for the future. I attribute this to the work I did with Jiveny. Whether you are in the dating world or in a relationship, I would not hesitate in recommending her.
Seb, Lawyer, 37
Get the Audit
If your profile isn't getting the matches you want, you don't need a new app. You need a fresh pair of eyes.
If you're tired of the swipe-and-hope routine, you deserve to walk into your apps with a profile that actually represents you. Click below to book your 90-minute audit with Jiveny - the fastest, most honest path to a profile that pulls its weight.
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