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From understanding women’s perspective and values to developing the traits that matter most, this book is a must-read for any man looking for a meaningful relationship. Discover the secrets to successful dating and become the man women want with “Mate”.

Book Review: Mate – Geoffrey Miller & Tucker Max


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Ready to find the one? Learn the key dating and relationship skills with Dating for Love. Discover how to filter out superficial and deceptive behavior in online dating and find a genuine connection that could lead to a long-term relationship.

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Find out why a spark might not be the best indicator for a successful relationship and how building connection and compatibility is key, in our blog post about the importance of compatibility over chemistry.

Why ‘Chemistry’ Can Be So Hard To Find


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Groundhog Day, the classic film starring Bill Murray, is not just a hilarious exploration of time travel, but also captures the essence of what it takes to attract the woman of your dreams.

Groundhog Day is a Parable of Modern Dating

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What are you dating for?

People date for a whole range of reasons - for fun, for sex, for validation, or because they feel they have to. 

But we’re here to help people who are ready to date for love.

We support men and women, seeking heterosexual relationships, who are looking for someone to share the next chapter of their life with. 

If you’re seeking a long-term, committed relationship, are ready to refine your dating strategy, and want to show your best self to potential partners, it might be time to consider working with a dating and relationship coach.

Hi, we're Joe & Jiveny, a husband and wife team of professional dating & attraction coaches and the creators of Dating for Love.

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Understanding your primary dating archetype takes you closer to truly understanding the dynamics of attraction, improving your relationship skills, and expanding your opportunities to find a great partner!

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