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Learn why chemistry is fleeting and how connection leads to lasting happiness. Get the tools and strategies to cultivate deeper connections with others and find true love and fulfilment.

Why Connection Trumps Chemistry

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From understanding women’s perspective and values to developing the traits that matter most, this book is a must-read for any man looking for a meaningful relationship. Discover the secrets to successful dating and become the man women want with “Mate”.

Book Review: Mate – Geoffrey Miller & Tucker Max

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Escape the endless swiping and messaging on dating apps and learn how to build meaningful connections in the real world with our three simple steps to move things offline and out on a date.

How to Get Off the Apps and Out to a Date in 3 Quick steps

Relationships

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Discover the secrets to finding a meaningful relationship in the age of dating apps with “How to Not Die Alone” by Logan Ury, a book that offers practical tips and insights on dating and relationships from a scientist who currently works for the dating app Hinge.

Book Review: How to not Die Alone – Logan Ury

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Uncover the true key to finding lasting love and happiness in relationships by shifting focus from physical attraction to connection, and learn how to form a strong bond that will last a lifetime with our blog post.

The Power of Connection: Why It’s More Important Than Physical Attraction

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Learn how to build stronger and healthier connections with others by understanding attachment theory with our recommended read “Attached” by Dr. Levine, a comprehensive and easy-to-follow overview of the three most common attachment styles.

Book Review: Attached – Amir Levine and Rachel S.F. Heller

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Ready to find the one? Learn the key dating and relationship skills with Dating for Love. Discover how to filter out superficial and deceptive behavior in online dating and find a genuine connection that could lead to a long-term relationship.

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Improve your relationship skills and gain a better understanding of how relationships work with Harville Hendrix’s “Keeping The Love You Find”, a unique and valuable resource for anyone seeking to understand and improve their relationships.

Book Review: Keeping The Love You Find by Harville Hendrix

Dating

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Find out why a spark might not be the best indicator for a successful relationship and how building connection and compatibility is key, in our blog post about the importance of compatibility over chemistry.

Why ‘Chemistry’ Can Be So Hard To Find

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Transform your relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship by understanding and addressing the underlying issues that can cause conflict with Harville Hendrix’s “Getting the Love You Want”, a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve their relationships.

Book Review: Getting the Love you Want by Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt

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People date for a whole range of reasons - for fun, for sex, for validation, or because they feel they have to. 

But we’re here to help people who are ready to date for love.

We support men and women, seeking heterosexual relationships, who are looking for someone to share the next chapter of their life with. 

If you’re seeking a long-term, committed relationship, are ready to refine your dating strategy, and want to show your best self to potential partners, it might be time to consider working with a dating and relationship coach.

Hi, we're Joe & Jiveny, a husband and wife team of professional dating & attraction coaches and the creators of Dating for Love.

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