We’re a team of expert dating and relationship coaches who help smart, self-aware singles stop the cycle of disappointment and start building the kind of love that actually lasts.
Since 2016, we’ve worked with men and women aged 20 to 70 to break free from bad habits, outdated advice, and surface-level connections. If you're ready to do love differently—we’d love to help!
We’re not here to play it safe—and neither are you.
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“I found this work groundbreaking! I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ regarding my failed relationships. Now I’m happily married to the love of my life with twin baby girls!”
– Aisha, 36
“When I first started coaching with Joe, I was shy, defeatist, and lacked direction in dating. I never imagined how much things could change. Now I’m in a secure, committed relationship with an incredible woman and for the first time, I’ve been able to fully be myself in a relationship, sharing openly and feeling truly seen.”
– Ben, 28
“I used to think relationships just weren’t for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man. This is a relationship which is so satisfying & fulfilling - more than I ever thought it could be!”
– Margaret, 73
“In just the span of 60 minutes Cara was able to reprogram decades of cultural programming that fundamentally affected my relationships with women, transforming my relationship to dating and so many other areas of my life.”
– Pranav, 26
“Now I don’t second guess my partner’s interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship.”
– Stacey, 34
Experience Life-Changing Results Like These:
Client Support & Admin
The warm and friendly face behind the scenes, here to keep things running smoothly and support you with anything else you might need.
Rosette Magallanes
Dating & Relationship Coach
Works with both men and women. Trained in somatic therapy, hypnosis, and the Enneagram—bringing depth, intuition, and emotional insight to her coaching.
Cara Munn
Co-Founder | Men’s & Couples Coach
Works with men on dating and personal growth, and supports couples in building strong, conscious relationships.
Joe Oppenheimer
Co-Founder | Head Coach
Specialising in women’s dating and relationship coaching. Leads the coaching team and pioneers our dating and relationship courses.
Jiveny Blair-West
We’re a team of certified dating and relationship coaches helping people break free from bad habits, outdated advice, and surface-level connections.
Meet the team behind Dating for Love:
We don’t do fairy tales.
We do real relationships.
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Done dating in the dark? We’ll guide you to real love with clear steps, deep shifts, and zero BS.
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Say goodbye to confusion, stuckness, or playing small. It’s time to attract a high-quality partner and create a relationship that’s healthy, aligned, and built to last.
Transform Your Love Life - For Good!
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Relationship skills are life skills. From emotional regulation to better boundaries and communication, we’ll help you build the tools you need to date well and grow in love.
Develop The Skills You Need
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Build awareness around your patterns, clarify your relationship goals, and learn what’s been holding you back—so you can date with confidence and direction.
Get Clear On What You Want
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Here’s how we help you go from 'Why is this so hard?'
To ‘Holy sh*t… is this what healthy love feels like!?’
Helping Singles Become Couples and Build Great Relationships Since 2016
Ben, 28
Thanks to our sessions, I learned how to step out of my comfort zone and build confidence in social settings. I also found the courage to pursue a crush, and it has turned out to be reciprocated.
Fast forward to today: I’m in a secure, committed relationship with an incredible woman I met through a trivia night at my cricket club. She’s everything I’ve ever wanted—intelligent, kind, and effortlessly stunning. For the first time, I’ve been able to fully be myself in a relationship, sharing openly and feeling truly seen.
When I first started coaching with Joe, I was shy, defeatist, and lacked direction in dating. I never imagined how much things could change.
Lauren, 33
Before working with Jiveny I had just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again. Since working with Jiveny I’ve experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour. I was much more able to identify partners that were not suitable for me and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.
Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence!
I'm now married to the man of my dreams – which is huge, because I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before!
Julian, 40
Given many of my early dating experiences were negative (being rejected, ghosted and the like) combined with a lack of relationship experience, I soon realised success would have been difficult to achieve on my own.
These negative experiences were taking a toll on my self-esteem which I knew if left unaddressed could lead me to give up on dating all together. Joe broke the journey down into practical steps which enabled me to feel a sense of progress as I continued to date and let go of self doubt. I’ve since met a gorgeous woman whom I can genuinely see a great future with!
Now I’m dating a wonderful woman and have a much greater awareness of relationships. I also feel much more confident in myself.
Stacey, 34
Learning about the archetypes of empowered feminine energy and what it means to be an ‘integrated’ woman is ground-breaking. Not just for my way of relating within my relationship, but within myself and relating to the world at large.
Most of all, I am confident that we are building a sustainable relationship that will carry us throughout our lives; that we are methodically exploring the right and important ‘big questions’ around values, goals and our life journey together.
Now I don’t second guess my partner’s interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship.
Pranav, 26
If you choose to work with Cara, I guarantee three things will happen: #1 She will show you your blind spots and limiting beliefs like nobody's business. #2 She will not just help you see or observe those blind spots or limiting beliefs, but she'll help you overcome them effortlessly. #3 She will show you things that you did not even know you needed to see that have been holding you back from accomplishing what you need to accomplish.
"In just the span of 60 minutes Cara was able to reprogram decades of cultural programming that fundamentally affected my relationships with women, transforming my relationship to dating and so many other areas of my life.”
Aisha, 36
Before working with Jiveny I had experienced a handful of serious relationships that I had mostly sabotaged. I found the work we did together ground breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ regarding my failed relationships.
I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with. He puts his family first and is such a loving and involved father. Applying the things I learned from Jiveny to the early stages of our relationship really helped us to progress our connection in a much healthier way.
I found the work we did together ground breaking and have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with.
Patrick, 37
In the past I’d had lots of short relationships and hook-ups as I struggled with neediness, keeping the relationship fun, being monogamous and feeling secure and worthy of a relationship.
Learning about the archetypes in the order that they are presented really opened my eyes to my dating strategy and what needed to change to serve my mission for lasting romance. Life's pretty great and I’m dating a woman I'm pretty into right now which feels really supportive and deep as well as fun and silly.
I appreciate the dedication Joe has to this work as it clearly springs from his own dedication to be the best man he can be.
Tanvi, 24
Since working together I have a much clearer picture of what is important to me, and what I would want out of a relationship and future partner. I have more self-confidence and am able to identify quicker if someone is actually looking for something serious, or if they are following the same patterns as my last relationships. I feel more self-confident and assured in my choices, and have a clearer picture of what is and feels right to me. If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Cara, I think I would have still been dating without understanding my intentions and goals.
Before working with Cara I was in multiple situationships, dating emotionally unavailable men and getting hurt by their lack of commitment.
KELVIN, 27
Some people might consider the idea of a dating coach to be ‘lame,’ but the truth is that the majority of men out there are quite clueless when it comes to dating. I know this because I was one of those men.
While you may eventually learn how to date well through trial and error, working with Joe can greatly expedite the process.
Working with Joe makes me feel like I am able to take manageable steps towards my goals of becoming socially confident and taking control of my dating life.
Margaret, 74
Before I started to work with Jiveny, I was always seeming to be attracted to men who were unavailable. At age 69, I also thought I was much too old to find a loving, committed relationship. But age really does not come into it and I learned that by working and connecting with Jiveny. At the time, I also felt quite negatively about myself. Yet Jiveny’s support, encouragement and wisdom meant that overtime, I again was able to change my view of myself.
Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man and I can really truthfully say that this is a relationship which is so satisfying and fulfilling – more than I ever thought a relationship could be. It’s just the most extraordinary experience!
I used to think relationships just weren’t for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man.
WILLIAM, 34
Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what I’d done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn’t tell if I was moving forwards or backwards.
I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else.
Since working together I’ve become better at handling and reflecting on the ups and downs, as well as having a better approach to this whole dating thing.
Francisca, 58
Before working with Cara I felt a bit hopeless about my options for love. Cara is a professional, supportive, kind and wise coach who listens well and holds space for me to be heard. She never judges, even if I’m judging myself! Since working with her, I have become clearer on my relationship requirements, which has brought me a greater sense of self-esteem. If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Cara, I think I would have been less well off emotionally, and not have felt so grounded and sure of myself while dating.
It is incredible to have such a great coach who also has skills in hypnotherapy and deep change work. I always feel heard and respected and that is so valuable, especially when navigating relationship challenges.
SAM, 27
I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners.
Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me.
Before working with Joe, I was always pursuing women that made me feel crazy and led to toxic relationships
Alexela, 36
Cara is the first person I turn to for support and guidance. With just her presence, she creates a safe space of warmth and grace, while offering clarity that gets straight to the heart of the matter. I’ve had the pleasure of working with her individually and in groups, and no matter the setting, she continuously shows up for others with unwavering integrity, knowledge and skill.
Through our work together, I’ve gained so much clarity, compassion, and trust in myself. I now better understand what truly fulfills me, and because of that, I navigate relationships with stronger boundaries and greater confidence.
Joanne, 42
My biggest takeaway was gaining a deeper understanding of how our core fears and motivations shape the way my partner and I show up in our relationship. Understanding our enneagram types has helped us become more patient and empathetic with each other. This awareness has led to more productive conversations and has made it easier to support each other in the ways we truly need. Cara does an amazing job of making the insights practical and personal, so you walk away with real tools to strengthen your connection.
If you want to deepen your relationship through self-awareness and mutual understanding, working with Cara is absolutely worth it!
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Our process is simple - get clear on the relationship you want, develop the relationship skills you need and approach modern dating with a strategy that works.
Partnering with a dating coach can help you avoid a life without love, so you don’t have to watch all your friends couple up and leave you behind.
Instead, you can share life with someone special, feel seen and loved, and know: YOU ARE WORTH IT.
Since 2016, we’ve been helping singles become couples and build the relationship of their dreams.
This is why we started
Dating for Love.
You may have found yourself wondering ‘Am I worthy of love?’ or ‘Does great love even exist?’
If this is you, you’re not alone.
Modern dating can be confusing. It’s easy to feel disheartened and resign yourself to being single forever.
But finding love shouldn’t be this hard! We are wired for connection, and everyone deserves to be loved.
We know how painful it is to take action and put yourself out there, only to feel like you’re not getting anywhere.
We also know that with the right knowledge, skills and strategies, you can have the relationship you’ve always wanted.
Best of all, all this can be learned! (Unfortunately they don’t teach this in school!)
Many singles struggle to attract a great partner and build a satisfying relationship.
Because a great relationship is worth it!
QUIZ FOR MEN
QUIZ FOR WOMEN
Uncover the energy you lead with in love—and what might be holding you back. Take the quiz to reveal your strengths, blindspots, and next steps toward relationship mastery.
This is a bold, no-fluff tool to help you decode your relationship style and start playing the game of love on a whole new level!
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Take our quiz to reveal your strengths, blindspots, and next steps toward relationship mastery. This is a bold, no-fluff tool to help you decode your relationship style and start playing the game of love on a whole new level.
Take our quiz to reveal your strengths, blindspots, and next steps toward relationship mastery.
Uncover the energy you lead with in love, and what might be holding you back...
Discover Your Relationship Archetype
Ok, I'm in!
Get my best tips for creating a charismatic online dating profile that stops the swipe and makes a captivating first impression!
