Love can feel like the ultimate gamble, but success in dating shouldn't rely on luck. You see your mates winning big, building sustainable attraction and meaningful long-term connections - and know that something needs to change.
But what? It’s time to realise that good relationships don’t just happen. Like any good poker player, it’s time to cultivate your game, refine your strategy, and learn how to play your cards right.
This one isn’t easy for men to admit. But you can hear it, can’t you? The idea of being an old dad, unable to kick a ball without tearing a hamstring, is like a clock ticking in the back of your mind.
You jump on and off the dating apps faster than a kid jumping on a trampoline. You go through a flurry of actively swiping, matching and messaging before you start to feel burnt out, demoralised and stop.
You make a match, maybe even go on a few dates. But then things start to fizzle out and soon enough you’re back at square one - without any clarity on where things went wrong.
You know you’re supposed to love the single life. Dating for fun and sex… isn't that what being a single guy is all about? But in the quiet moments, when you’re alone, you admit that you want to build a deeper connection.
You want a secure relationship, but you’re not even sure you know what that looks like. Maybe the relationships you’ve grown up with don’t mirror what women are looking for today - a world where men and women lead in families and societies as equals. You want a modern relationship founded on respect, collaboration and equality, but how will you get there?
You want more - and you can’t shake the feeling that time is running out. You worry that you’ll never meet your match. Meanwhile, you look at the men around you, and they make it look so easy. What makes you different?
To truly be seen as a man with a winning hand, you have to take the time to develop the skills to navigate dating well and become a great life partner and then be willing drop the mask and let others get to know the real you.
Build a loving, passionate and healthy relationship.
Have women pursuing YOU for commitment.
Project warmth and intrigue.
Show up on dates with confidence in yourself.
I can help you:
I know what it feels like to be lost, trying to unlock your dating and relationship success.
I also know how to teach you a deeply fulfilling way of approaching relationships with women that greatly boosts your chances of falling (and staying) in love.
*This course is purely focused on helping men to understand attraction and relate to women better. Women can explore our Alchemy of Attraction course here. If you are interested in an LGTBQI+ relationship course, please email us here. We will be working on other versions of this course in the future and would love to hear from you!
Looking for the real deal: the inspiring thrill ride that is true and lasting love
Interested in more than just a casual hookup (they're fine, but not what this course is about)
Serious about this - you want to move quickly and welcome love into your life, without delay
Done with unnecessary heartache from trying to figure everything out on your own
Ready to setup healthier patterns to build your ideal future and dream relationship
Open to new techniques for communicating with potential partners and pushing through the fear
Willing to develop your inner guides around dating and tune into your innate wisdom
Tired of attracting people who don't really interest you (while getting nowhere with women you really like)
Disappointed by your previous mistakes in relationships
A man seeking a relationship with a woman*
In this course, you and I will work together to unpack what's been missing from your dating strategy, transform your approach, and help you get to the next level in your relationships.
I have years of coaching experience and have collaborated extensively on Jiveny's signature course for women, the Alchemy of Attraction.
As men, we’ve grown up being told different stories about relationships than women. We’ve had to live up to certain standards of masculinity, that don’t always pave a pathway to healthy relationships.
In The Winning Hand, you can join a group of like-minded men who are ready to make lasting change.
Forget endlessly swiping right for new matches.
Instead, I'll show you how to identify your relationship strategy, see where you're going wrong, and adapt your approach to dating in a way that feels easy and empowering.
Lifetime course access - jump in for a refresher any time!
An online community connecting you with other men on a similar journey
Live Q&A sessions (with me) to make sure we're all on the same page
Practical exercises and external resources to make this knowledge real
Four archetypes and shadow sides to map out your dating strategy
9 weeks of relationship insights, with audio, video and written materials to support your learning
Build a secure relationship by asserting healthy boundaries with confidence and grace along the way
Get insights into the hearts and minds of women as you learn how to nurture and relate to them more effectively
Update your relationship strategy so that you'll be able to attract the woman of your dreams
Develop a deeper understanding of how to navigate the modern dating scene and get satisfying results
Unlock more confidence in how you approach, interact and relate to women
Gain clarity as you identify where your dating strategy is weakest, and how to fix it
Discover the 4 archetypes of masculine attraction which symbolise the skills necessary to build a healthy & passionate relationship
Learn about the female perspective when it comes to dating and relationships and what they are really attracted to
Develop a realistic and positive attitude towards dating based on scientific principles
Take action and develop your experience with practical exercises that anchor this wisdom in the real world
Learn how to express healthy boundaries & navigate conflict effectively to create security in a new relationship
Clarify your relationship vision and assess previous dating strategies that no longer serve you, so that you don't waste any more of your precious time with the wrong people
Get stuck into the lessons of your first archetype; learn about their superpowers and understand their shadow sides
Learn how to let someone in and build a strong emotional connection without scaring them away
Discover how to talk to women and communicate your interest in a safe, effective way
Explore the negative beliefs you may have about women and relationships that are holding you back from making a strong connection
Meet your second archetype. Get to know their lessons and understand their shadow sides
Learn how to build tension and exercise self-restraint to drive women wild
Study how to develop a deep connection with women and invite intimacy into new relationships
Discover how to escalate a romantic connection while showing her you’re safe and sexy
Meet your third archetype; the Lover and learn how he connects with and attracts quality women
Connect with your own relationship wisdom and anchor your new dating strategy in the real world
Integrate the tools to stay connected to your individuality while you navigate a new relationship
Learn to understand and relate to women on a level that makes them see you as real, 'life partner' material
Meet your final archetype, uncover their shadow sides and embody their key lessons
Some people might consider the idea of a dating coach to be ‘lame,’ but the truth is that the majority of men out there are quite clueless when it comes to dating. I know this because I was one of those men.
While you may eventually learn how to date well through trial and error, working with Joe can greatly expedite the process.
After achieving many of my career goals, I started to really feel the absence of a life partner and how my life could be more fun and lively if I had someone special to share it with.
Joe is kind and genuine – that’s why I started doing coaching with him. I’ve learned a lot from him and think he is a fantastic coach. He is genuinely interested in helping me, and good at understanding the kinds of feelings I'm going through.
Before working with Joe I was unsure of myself, as I was starting out on my dating journey and feeling a bit overwhelmed given my lack of experience in this area. Diving in the deep end was essentially what I’d done, but without any real method to what I was doing I couldn’t tell if I was moving forwards or backwards.
I found our work together insightful by being able to get a different perspective on my experiences, and being able to develop a constructive way forward and draw from the experience of someone else.
You'll be joining a safe community of men who share your hopes and goals for the future.
Together, we will witness and support each other while we do the deep inner work required to shift our relationship mindsets.
It's a dating course for men with a safe space to share and celebrate.
But nothing is forced:
you can share and be vulnerable
or you can sit back, listen and absorb at your own pace
No matter how little or how much you contribute, you will get the support you need and interact in a way that is unashamedly you.
With five modules of online content AND nine group sessions with me, this tailored program will transform your love life for the better.
No one teaches us how to date in school and the internet is full of opinions from shallow pickup artistry techniques to confusing messages about "being an alpha male."
Sometimes we can get so overwhelmed that we lose touch with our own natural instincts. And when we start to doubt ourselves, our confidence crumbles.
Perhaps you fell hard for someone and desperately tried to keep them. Or perhaps you have a strong fear of intimacy, so you've never let anyone get too close. Now life is rushing by and you're worried that a great love just isn't in your future.
I know you have the potential to attract good love into your life. Successful dating for men all starts with knowing yourself, and tapping into your own inner wisdom. It's all there within you, just waiting to be actualised.
Let me show you how with The Winning Hand relationship course for men.
Develop a dating strategy that actually gets you the love you want. Learn the subtle art of pacing so that you don't sabotage or rush a relationship.
Learn how to safely express your desire; how to let women in and build a strong emotional connection that can be the foundation for a great relationship.
Refine your relationship vision and learn to develop healthy boundaries so that you don't waste any more of your precious time with the wrong people.
Identify where your dating strategy is weakest, why and what you need to do to become and be recognised as a very desirable partner for high quality, eligible women.
Discover the four archetypes of masculine attraction to embody the skills necessary to build a healthy, passionate, secure, long-term relationship.
Jiveny and her father (a psychiatrist and relationship therapist) wrote this book to help people more carefully consider the choice of choosing a life partner. It unpacks what to be looking at and exploring with a potential suitor.
In this course, we'll be taking these insights to the next level by exploring how you can maximise your own masculine gifts.
It’s about improving your dating strategy to more easily attract a quality partner and build a secure and passionate long-term relationship from the start.
Regardless of whether you've read this book or not, the course will set you up for relationships success by multiplying your options. Then you can read the book to figure out who to choose!
The Winning Hand walks you through a proven, four-part framework. It will take you from feeling stuck in your love life and unable to attract a quality partner, to easily and consistently attracting good women who value who you are and are willing to pursue you for commitment.
This puts you in the driver’s seat of your love life so that you can choose the right partner for yourself and co-create the family/lifestyle you have always wanted.
Ask Joe any extra questions that come up as you work through the course to ensure we're all on the same page.
All online sessions will be recorded so if you can't make the live call, you'll have access to the recording to review at your own pace.
Not only will you have access to this round of the course, but you'll also be able to access all future updates.
Put everything you learn in this course into practice. With practical exercises and external resources this course is designed to support you in making this knowledge real!
Connect and share your experiences with the other students in this course via the online community portal.
Join live or work through the modules at your own pace. Either way the content is all yours to discover and revisit at any time!
Learn how to communicate and relate to women more effectively as you take control of your love life and expand your dating options.
Develop a solid understanding of women, and how to navigate the modern dating scene with clarity and insight as we redesign your dating strategy.
To get the best from your investment, I suggest you allow 75 mins for the group coaching calls and 30-60 minutes during the week to complete your coursework. But the assignments I set you won't be like school homework! They're all fun, practical exercises designed to prompt you into challenging your thinking about women, relationships, love and attraction.
Yes! You get to keep all the worksheets and get access to all future course updates as they are released. Better yet, purchasing this round means you get all the present and future value at the best possible price, as course prices will increase the next time I offer this course.
Some men believe they need to get fitter, make more money, or get over their ex before signing up. But the truth is, you don't need to get ready for The Winning Hand, The Winning Hand is what gets you ready for success in your dating life. We'll cover all the bases that take you from ground zero to the relationship of your dreams.It depends.
Saying that, if you have serious mental-health issues or have experienced significant trauma regarding relationships, this course may not be the sole solution. Additional professional therapy, counselling or psychological support may be necessary.
NOTE: Even if you can’t make some or any of the live calls, you’ll still get ongoing access to the video recordings to watch the replay at a later time so that you can work through the course at your own pace. You'll also have the opportunity to ask me any questions as you review the videos via the online forum.
The dates and times of the live calls will be announced during launch week. Join the waiting list today and we will notify you once the next round of dates are confirmed. :-)
The calls will be scheduled via Zoom. When you register for the course you will get a calendar invitation to add all the calls to your calendar at once.
After each call you'll get access to a recording, plus the slides and resources covered in that lesson.
All you need to access and participate in this course will be hosted within the course portal so it's certainly not necessary to get the most out of this course, however if you would like to join our FB group and connect with other participants there, you're welcome to!
I encourage you to ask questions as the course unfolds. You can do this either live, in the online chat while we are on a group call, or between sessions by submitting your questions in the community forum. These questions will then either be answered online via the course platform or during one of our Q&A sessions. Recordings of these sessions will also be made available.
Of course! If you feel you want additional one-to-one support from Joe, you can learn more here to find out about his next availability for coaching calls and we will do our best to give preference to TWH students.
Yes, this course has a 14-day do the work money-back guarantee which means:
If you don’t feel like TWH is giving you the skills, strategy, and support you need to attract a quality partner, just email me at firstname.lastname@example.org within the first two weeks of the course starting, and I’ll give you your money back. The only thing you have to do is attend the first two calls live or watch the recordings, and show me that you've done the homework. Refunds must be requested within 14 days of the course starting. No refunds are provided after the first 14 days, and I do not provide pro-rata refunds for cancelled accounts. After the initial refund period expires, I will continue to process any remaining payments (if you have selected a payment plan option).
Attract a partner who absolutely adores you. Someone who actually puts effort into moving things forward and building an epic life with you!
Learn how to get (and stay) in the driver’s seat of your love life. This means you get to set the pace and date women who are committed to bringing their best to a relationship.
Transform matches into girlfriends (but only if you want to!). Have quality women pursuing you for a committed relationship so that you can take your pick!
A dating strategy that actually works, and helps you to create a strong foundation of love from the beginning.
Clarity and confidence when it comes to approaching the dating scene.
I did not have good relationship modelling from my parents, which Joe has helped me understand. He's given me a healthier framework that I can use to assess future potential partners.
Without having done this work, I can guarantee that I would still be making the same mistakes. It's a challenge but I now believe that something better is waiting for me.