We threw out the timers. We banned the generic "what do you do?" questions. We created a space where the goal isn't to meet everyone, but to actually see someone. We replaced the pressure to perform with the permission to connect.
When you slow down, the anxiety drops. The masks come off. And suddenly, an awkward stranger becomes the most interesting person in the room. This isn't just an event; it's the antidote to modern dating.
SO, WE FLIPPED THE SCRIPT.
Maybe you even tried a speed dating event with bells, whistles, and 3-minute timers. It set you up to treat people like products on a conveyor belt. And what did you get? Burnout, awkward small talk, and a contact list full of people you likely never wanted to see again.
But here is the truth: You cannot speed up true connection. The problem isn't that there are "no good singles left." The problem is the container. When you rush the beginning, you kill the potential. You can't feel chemistry when you're watching the clock, and you certainly can't see the real person when you're stuck in interview mode.
You've been told dating was a numbers game.
"Just put yourself out there," they said.
Swipe more. Meet more. Hurry up. So you did.
Speed dating is for rushers.
Slow dating is for lovers.
Once you have the skills, we open the floor. This is where you get to test-drive your new confidence in real time. But unlike a loud bar or a rushed speed-dating event, this is a safe, curated container. We remove the pressure. There are no timers, no interview questions, and no guessing games. It is a relaxed environment filled with like-minded singles who are all there for the same reason. You can finally drop your guard, practice your skills, and let connection happen naturally.
The ‘Slow Dating’ Singles Mixer
Part Two:
Before the socialising begins, the men and women will split into two separate workshops led by our qualified coaches. This isn't about pickup artist hacks, manipulation, or canned lines. It is a grounded, practical masterclass in how humans actually connect. We teach you the psychological mechanics of signalling and the approaching - simple, authentic skills to turn a stranger's glance into a potential date without feeling creepy or desperate. These aren't just tips for tonight; they are life skills you will take home with you.
The Dating Skills Workshop
Part One:
Most dating events just throw you in a room with a nametag and wish you luck. We don't do that. We believe you need the skills to connect before you step into the space to connect. That is why the experience is split into two distinct parts:
This is not your average singles event.
"I used to feel so awkward and shy - or I would go up and talk to guys and create a chase-run dynamic! Now I’m flirting all the time. These techniques are so low stakes yet effective.”
Sarah, 32
Laura, 30
“Dating suddenly feels playful and exciting. Two guys came over to chat and asked for my number, and it reminded me that attraction isn’t about perfection.”
BEn, 34
“I learned how to step out of my comfort zone and build confidence in social settings. I also found the courage to pursue a crush, and it has turned out to be reciprocated.”
We invite the whole group to a post-event dinner nearby. This is where the formal dating drops away and genuine friendships (and romances) are cemented over food and wine.
Even if you don't find "The One" you’ll walk away with a new social circle of high-quality singles.
The event ends, but the night doesn't have to.
The Group Dinner Invite
BONUS:
✔️ Stop wasting your evenings swiping endlessly for "matches" that only fizzle out.
✔️ Start generating your own dating opportunities in the real world instead of just dreaming about a meet cute that never happens.
✔️ Finally stop hiding when you spot someone attractive and learn how to signal interest with total confidence.
✔️ Know how to break the ice and spark a connection without ever feeling creepy, intense, or desperate.
Turn a stranger's glance into a real-life date without feeling creepy or desperate.
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You have a life you love, and you are ready to share it. You are done with situationships and ambiguity. You are a high-value woman who values her heart too much to leave it to an algorithm. You want a safe, curated space where you can finally exhale, stop overthinking every micro-interaction, and master the art of receiving attention from men who are actually looking for a relationship.
THE INTENTIONAL ROMANTIC (WOMEN)
THE INVISIBLE KING (MEN)
You are a catch on paper, but in a loud bar or crowded app, you feel invisible. You aren't interested in pickup artist tricks, but you are done hesitating. You are a proactive man who is willing to invest in himself to get a result. You want to walk into a room where you are guaranteed to be seen and learn that you don't need a perfect line to be a contender - you just need the courage to make the move.
You belong in this room if you are:
This is for the brave ones. The people who don't sit back and wait for luck, but are ready to learn the skills to create their own.
We have traded intimacy for efficiency, and it isn't working. We are more connected than ever, yet we have never been lonelier. Online dating forces you to judge a human being in 0.5 seconds based on a photo. That isn't dating; that's shopping.
The human heart wasn't designed to fall in love with a pixelated profile. It was designed for eye contact, pheromones, and real-time energy.
If you are craving something real, you have to go where the real people are. You have to leave the metaverse and enter the universe.
We don't teach you how to have better text banter. We teach you the lost art of Offline Connection - how to read a room, how to signal interest, and how to create a vibe that no app can replicate.
You can't download chemistry.
Don’t give up on dating just because online dating sucks.
Every ticket holder agrees to the Dating For Love pledge, ensuring the room is filled with high-intent singles who value safety, respect, and real connection.
You can drop your guard and just be yourself, knowing everyone else is here for the same reason - love, not games.
Most singles events are a gamble. You walk in hoping the people are normal, safe, and actually single. We remove the guesswork.
We filter the room so you don’t have to.
We didn't get lucky. We got skilled. And inside The Slow Dating Experience, we teach you the exact same skills that built our family - so you never have to watch a sliding doors moment pass you by again.
On the surface it looks like a meet-cute, but it was actually a sliding doors moment. If Jiveny hadn't signalled, or if Joe had stayed frozen, we would be strangers today. Instead, we are celebrating 10 years of marriage and raising our beautiful baby girl.
It wasn't a movie scene. It was a skill.
Ten years ago, we were absolute strangers standing on the #86 Tram in Melbourne when we first locked eyes. In a Hollywood rom-com, the music would swell and the guy would just magically know to walk over. But in the real world? That is the moment where most people freeze, look down at their phones, and let the moment die.
But we didn't let it die. Jiveny knew how to throw the signal that it was safe to approach. And Joe knew how to read the sign and make the move. It wasn't magic; it was mechanics. One of us created the opening, and the other one walked towards it.
Hi, we are Jiveny & Joe, the husband and wife a dating & relationship coaching team behind Dating For Love.
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TEstimonials from past clients:
"Ground breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of my failed relationships... I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with."
Aisha, 36
Kelvin, 27
“Working with Joe makes me feel like I am able to take manageable steps towards my goals of becoming socially confident and taking control of my dating life.”
Kirstina, 30
“I’ve noticed a huge shift in my approach to dating for the better. I’m much more able to manage my reactions and allow the guys I am interested in to come to me.”
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They tell you to stop looking, stop trying, and just trust that the universe will deliver your person to your doorstep like an Uber Eats order. They make you feel like wanting love is the very thing pushing it away.
But the truth is, hope is not a strategy. You wouldn't wait for your career to "just happen." You wouldn't wait for your health to "just happen." So why are we told to treat the most important decision of our lives with total passivity? The reality is that love isn't random; it's responsive. It responds to energy, it responds to skill, and it responds to action.
That’s why The Slow Dating Experience is the missing link. We don't ask you to wait for lightning to strike. We teach you how to become a lightning rod. We replace the passive "fingers crossed" strategy with the active skills of connection, so you stop waiting to be chosen and start creating the love you want.
They say, "Love happens when you least expect it."
The Worst Dating Advice You’ve Ever Heard.
Got a question? Get in touch!
We have designed this entire evening to kill the awkwardness and turn it into connection. You can come solo and let the room do the work, or grab a single wingfriend and snag the double ticket discount.
But whatever you do, don't stay home just because it feels safe. Safe doesn't get you the date.
Get your butt in The Slow Dating Experience and let us show you how easy connection can be.
If you are sitting there thinking, "But what if I come alone and it's weird?" let us tell you this:
Regret is weirder.
Don't let the fear of "awkward" keep you single.
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