It’s time to maximise your dating strategy.
To confidently step into the dating game with purpose. To attract AND maintain a fulfilling relationship. And I can show you how...
The Alchemy of Attraction™️
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Having to constantly build up your energy and armour to put yourself out there.
Feeling swipe fatigue and dating burnout, leading to a constant cycle of deleting then downloading the apps.
Constantly second-guessing yourself (am I giving him too many chances? Or not enough?) leaving yourself in relationship limbo.
And the persistent question in the back of your mind… should I really be doing this? Won’t real, true love, just find me? (you can blame Hollywood for that one!)
The search for love can be exhausting.
Repeating the same old habits erodes your self esteem with tiny heartbreaks, again and again.
Get clear on what you want, and find someone who shares your values.
Change your dating mindset and build your confidence.
Recognise and overcome patterns of self-sabotage.
It's time to:
You see your friends and family falling in love, making lasting connections, finding people to step confidently into the next phase of their life with and you think… Why can’t it happen for me?
Dating doesn’t have to be this way.
But dating doesn’t have to be this way.
Read that again.
You are worthy, but when you’ve been on the dating rollercoaster for a while - spinning through the highs and lows - it’s perfectly natural to want to keep your heart safe.
But when you approach dating and relationships with this strategy, you can find yourself taking totally opposite actions than those that will move you toward lasting success.
It might keep your heart safe in the short term, but doesn’t help you get what you want from life over the long term.
The right dating strategy can help you attract higher quality people and save you time, energy and unnecessary heartache.
With the right dating strategy, you can go into each new interaction with more confidence, and a more clarity around what you really want. At the same time, you’ll help men feel safe, trusted, desired and understood, which leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling relationship for you! 😉
Isn’t it time you found the love you’ve been yearning for?
You are worthy of lasting love, sustainable attraction, and a long term relationship.
(Or is it more a “keep my heart safe” strategy?)
Are you running a “get love” strategy?
The Alchemy of Attraction gives you a step-by-step framework to develop the mindset, skills and strategy to get you out of your dating rut and into a healthy, passionate and secure relationship.
Through pre-recorded content for self-paced learning, and our vibrant online community, this course will help you:
Develop your confidence in building a secure relationship and asserting healthy boundaries with confidence and grace along the way.
Gain profound insight into the hearts and minds of men as you learn how to communicate and relate to them more effectively.
Unpack and upgrade your strategy (and learn how to practically apply that strategy) so that you can get more of the love you want.
Understand how to navigate the modern dating scene with more clarity and insight.
Discover a newfound confidence in how you approach, interact and relate to men.
Together, we can build space in your life for love.
You’ll be supported by someone who has been there, done that (and written a book about it too!)
As a leading dating and attraction coach, I've helped dozens of women get clear on their boundaries, develop inner self-confidence and create a plan for welcoming good love into their lives.
Like you, one day I looked around and found myself sitting on the dating rollercoaster. I was being taken through these highs and lows, but I didn’t remember buying a ticket, and I couldn’t work out how to get off.
I began a lot of soul seeking (and education) to transform my life - finding lasting love in the process. In 2016, I decided to start my own business as a dating and attraction coach and help others build good love. I’m now a qualified life coach, and have undertaken training in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Timeline Therapy, Emotional Processing and Internal Family Systems (IFS) as well as continually being mentored by my psychiatrist and relationship-therapist father. In fact, we even wrote a book together called: How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life.
If you're ready to gain a deeply fulfilling way of approaching relationships that greatly boosts your chances of falling in love (and staying in love) then I can help you.
Hey, I'm Jiveny, a dating & attraction coach for women. Together, we can build space in your life for love.
Meet your teacher
Forget endlessly swiping right for new matches. Instead, I'll show you how to identify your relationship strategy, see where you're going wrong, and adapt your approach to dating in a way that feels natural and empowering.
The Alchemy of Attraction dating and relationship course is free of pick-up lines, manipulation and sleazy dating tactics.
I won't ask you to act a certain way around men or change yourself to get a man.
The confidence you'll learn in this course goes far beyond relationships. It’s an investment in yourself, the confidence you bring to each day, and the satisfaction you get to enjoy for the rest of your life.
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Sheridan, 34
I was single for about 10 years before I started working with Jiveny and I felt like I had lost my way.
Since doing this course, I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself and I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have. After 3 years of dating, we’re now married and parents to a beautiful baby girl!
If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time. I don’t think I would have formed some of the extremely valuable friendships I have (as these came from living so authentically and in alignment) and I think if I had met my partner at the time having NOT done this work, it would have been a different outcome.
"If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then doing AOA is an absolute must!
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results that go far beyond dating...
Lifetime course access - jump in for a refresher any time! This includes any future improvements to the course.
An online community connecting you with other women on a similar journey. Share stories and lift each other up!
Practical exercises and external resources to transform strategy into action.
A full run-down on the archetypes of attraction, and how you can use them to hack your dating strategy. Think of this as a diagnostic tool for how you approach dating and relationships.
5 modules of pre-recorded lessons and activities. Learn week-by-week or tackle them at your own pace.
Here’s what you get:
If you’re the kind of person who learns best by watching videos, taking notes, and completing worksheets, great! The Alchemy of Attraction has you covered. But, if learning on the go — while you’re driving, cooking, cleaning, exercising, and going about your day — is more your style, rest assured there’s a podcast-style option for you too.
In short, the course is designed so you can take what you need, when you need it, safe in the knowledge the tools are there for you to dive in deeper anywhere along the journey.
When you join The Alchemy of Attraction, you get 9 weeks of pre-recorded video and audio content including all future course updates. Life is unpredictable, and I want you to be able to come back to these foundations whenever and however you need.
What's Included?
Unpack the foundations of a healthy relationship and get clear on the qualities of a high value man
Gain clarity as you identify where your dating strategy is weakest, why and how to fix it
Discover the 4 archetypes of feminine attraction; each archetype symbolises the skills necessary to build a healthy, passionate and secure, relationship