Having to constantly build up your energy and armour to put yourself out there.
Feeling swipe fatigue and dating burnout, leading to a constant cycle of deleting then downloading the apps.
Constantly second-guessing yourself (am I giving him too many chances? Or not enough?) leaving yourself in relationship limbo.
And the persistent question in the back of your mind… should I really be doing this? Won’t real, true love, just find me? (you can blame Hollywood for that one!)
Get clear on what you want, and find someone who shares your values.
Change your dating mindset and build your confidence.
Recognise and overcome patterns of self-sabotage.
You see your friends and family falling in love, making lasting connections, finding people to step confidently into the next phase of their life with and you think… Why can’t it happen for me?
Read that again.
You are worthy, but when you’ve been on the dating rollercoaster for a while - spinning through the highs and lows - it’s perfectly natural to want to keep your heart safe.
But when you approach dating and relationships with this strategy, you can find yourself taking totally opposite actions than those that will move you toward lasting success.
It might keep your heart safe in the short term, but doesn’t help you get what you want from life over the long term.
The right dating strategy can help you attract higher quality people and save you time, energy and unnecessary heartache.
With the right dating strategy, you can go into each new interaction with more confidence, and a more clarity around what you really want. At the same time, you’ll help men feel safe, trusted, desired and understood, which leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling relationship for you! 😉
Isn’t it time you found the love you’ve been yearning for?
Like you, one day I looked around and found myself sitting on the dating rollercoaster. I was being taken through these highs and lows, but I didn’t remember buying a ticket, and I couldn’t work out how to get off.
I began a lot of soul seeking (and education) to transform my life - finding lasting love in the process. In 2016, I decided to start my own business as a dating and attraction coach and help others build good love. I’m now a qualified life coach, and have undertaken training in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Timeline Therapy, Emotional Processing and Internal Family Systems (IFS) as well as continually being mentored by my psychiatrist and relationship-therapist father. In fact, we even wrote a book together called: How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life.
If you're ready to gain a deeply fulfilling way of approaching relationships that greatly boosts your chances of falling in love (and staying in love) then I can help you.
The Alchemy of Attraction dating and relationship course is free of pick-up lines, manipulation and sleazy dating tactics.
I won't ask you to act a certain way around men or change yourself to get a man.
The confidence you'll learn in this course goes far beyond relationships. It’s an investment in yourself, the confidence you bring to each day, and the satisfaction you get to enjoy for the rest of your life.
I was single for about 10 years before I started working with Jiveny and I felt like I had lost my way.
Since doing this course, I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself and I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have. After 3 years of dating, we’re now married and parents to a beautiful baby girl!
If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time. I don’t think I would have formed some of the extremely valuable friendships I have (as these came from living so authentically and in alignment) and I think if I had met my partner at the time having NOT done this work, it would have been a different outcome.
Lifetime course access - jump in for a refresher any time! This includes any future improvements to the course.
An online community connecting you with other women on a similar journey. Share stories and lift each other up!
Practical exercises and external resources to transform strategy into action.
A full run-down on the archetypes of attraction, and how you can use them to hack your dating strategy. Think of this as a diagnostic tool for how you approach dating and relationships.
5 modules of pre-recorded lessons and activities. Learn week-by-week or tackle them at your own pace.
Unpack the foundations of a healthy relationship and get clear on the qualities of a high value man
Gain clarity as you identify where your dating strategy is weakest, why and how to fix it
Discover the 4 archetypes of feminine attraction; each archetype symbolises the skills necessary to build a healthy, passionate and secure, relationship